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Author:  GKS [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 2:44 am ]
Post subject:  How did I do?
A convo I had with a HB9, she has a psychology degree, so that explains the whole tendency to throw loops.

Me: Hey you look quite familiar, were you by any chance on the Titanic?
I swear I saw you cleaning tables when I was having dinner.
Her: I'm not sure what you're insinuating, but hopefully it's good!
Me: I tried to flirt with you but the boat went down before I could do that. I think that's a good thing ;)
Her: We must be reincarnated then eh?
Me: No we're not. As a merman, I wouldn't possibly let my date drown would I ? ;)
Her: How were you on a boat if you were a merman though??
Me: You haven't seen Little Mermaid? But enough about me, let's talk about you. What is the most exciting you have ever done in your life?
Her: What do you mean "enough about me"? You've yet to actually tell me anything about yourself.
Me: I can't tell you all my secret ;) everything is on my profile. Now back to my question.
Her: Ditto.
Me: Tch. My question was specific, it wasn't in your profile. But it's totally understandable, some people find it hard to open up and get to know others.
Her: Haha, you wouldn't be insulting me now would you?
Me: Haha, you wouldn't be testing your psych knowledge on me now would you?
Her: I would never! :)

I think I finally regain frame control at the end. But took me a while to realize I was jumping her loops hardcore :( Also noticed I used too much smiley in the convo, bad habit.
Author:  Asmodai [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 2:57 am ]
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I wouldn't expect her to pick up my calls. Probably would reply with a text and try to text-zone me. I don't know how you had this convo; FB or some kind of IM? Or in person?

You set yourself up by opening with bullshit. Some girls (the funny ones) will play back, but she didn't. You were getting a lot of conscious, left-brain responses; she was cross-examining you like the motherfucking DA!
Quote:
Her: How were you on a boat if you were a merman though??
You: By having an imagination ;)
I know the point of seduction is to present a challenge so the woman can enjoy walking a zig-zag path into your bedroom, but that doesn't mean challenging her grip on reality with bullshit :P
Author:  GKS [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 3:08 am ]
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Thank for the input man. Your response is indeed way better, that would save me from the whole brain dissecting.
It was from FB, but yea I was testing the Titanic opener to see if it works. I realized my mistake halfway and tried to steer to the qualify question.
Author:  0uch [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 5:00 am ]
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One thing I hate doing texting, Im, phonecall, etc... Is qualifying or building comfort. I do it but I keep it to a minimum. If it comes up.

You started off with roleplay, which is good, but you jumped in qualification too quickly. You should have started off small, and built up as comfort increases. Should have kept going on with the roleplay.
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