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| Author: | paulrick [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 2:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Best qualifier you've ever used |
I need help in the qualifying part of my game, what's the best one you've ever used? |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 3:18 pm ] |
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A good qualification QUESTION (i.e. a question or statement that gets a girl to justify herself, defend herself, or explain something about herself to you) has to be tailored specifically to the GIRL. Mystery's standard "name 3 things apart from beauty that make you interesting/unique" is OK, but it's better, through some conversation, to find out what makes her tick, what her passions and interests are, what her goals are, and base your questions on that. A qualifIER (i.e. a COMPLIMENT) again, is more genuine and more powerful if it's specific to her, doubly so if it's an aspect about her that she actually VALUES. Hot girls get called "hot" all the time, so it no longer holds any value to them. It's a compliment, but it holds no emotional weight. The girl who acts like a party girl and dumbs herself down to fit in, but is secretly really intelligent and a bit nerdy, will LOVE you if you actually tell her "you know, underneath that party girl image you make for yourself, I can see you're actually really switched on and motivated." |
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