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Author:  school25 [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 3:37 am ]
Post subject:  Being a challenge for her but end up with nothing
Hi guys,
So I have a little problem out there
There are a few girls in my skool and likes me and I always play it hard to get but the problem is that I do that since for ever and then even If I built some good attraction its hard after for me to get that girl...
Im not rlly shy , I look good but I think that they see me as a snob fucker

so please someone help me :(
Author:  Maikuljay [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 3:43 am ]
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It's a matter of being, not faking..

this is common people get good with game.. but once they get the girl they turn back into their regular validation seeking selfs.. In your case, too shy/quiet.. being perceived as the wrong thing on the initial interaction.



work on your self my man, you'll get there in time. Try doing things more outgoing, be more spontaneous, fun, dont take anything to seriously.
Author:  school25 [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 3:52 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
It's a matter of being, not faking..

this is common people get good with game.. but once they get the girl they turn back into their regular validation seeking selfs.. In your case, too shy/quiet.. being perceived as the wrong thing on the initial interaction.



work on your self my man, you'll get there in time. Try doing things more outgoing, be more spontaneous, fun, dont take anything to seriously.
thank you for answering man but the thing is that im not shy at all when im talking to a girl but I look serious and im a little shy to go open thats the problem
and that looking serious + idk wat else makes me snob idk why
Alot of pplz tell me that I look snob :(
Author:  kasabi [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 5:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Being a challenge for her but end up with nothing
Quote:
Hi guys,
So I have a little problem out there
There are a few girls in my skool and likes me and I always play it hard to get but the problem is that I do that since for ever and then even If I built some good attraction its hard after for me to get that girl...
Im not rlly shy , I look good but I think that they see me as a snob fucker

so please someone help me :(
Stop lying to yourself. You're NOT 'Playing' hard to get. You're just being a nervous kid who's afraid to ask a girl out, that's all. You're simply using PU LINGO to make yourself feel a little better about your bullshit. Stop.

The good news is that since you're living inside your little fantasy land, you probably haven't actively done much to influence those around you, either positively or negatively. (People will always toss a few comments in your direction. You will naturally connect with comments that are in line with your mindset.) So relax. There's nothing good going on here but there's nothing particularly bad going on here either. You're the ghost guy. Nobody gives a fuck. You just wish they did one way or another.

This is a pick up forum. There's plenty of material here to get you going. Stop identifying yourself this way or that way and just begin from level 0. Figure out a few openers, a few routines, and a few closes. Then go out and DO IT. There are plenty guys who've been members in this forum for longer than I have who have yet to ask out a girl. Really . . . try to avoid that path.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 10:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Being a challenge for her but end up with nothing
Quote:
There are plenty guys who've been members in this forum for longer than I have who have yet to ask out a girl. Really . . . try to avoid that path.
Hey man, there's no need to take pot shots at Hobbit for no reason ;-)
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