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| Author: | meezy89 [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 10:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | best way to handle this? |
so there is a girl who is involved in a University program with me. We've known each other for about 8 months now, and about a month ago we grabbed drinks with friends from our program, and ended up having sex. Before i go any further, this is a big NO NO because of the program. Huge conflict of interest, among other things. So anyway... sex was good. We text a good bit and see each other often with our program and make plans to have drinks a few days after we had slept together. i decide before things go any further that i should bring up what happened and see where she stands with it. We can't date, and probably shouldn't be having drinks just us 2 to begin with, which makes it all the more fun honestly. She says she would like to date but recognizes that we can't and wants to continue things as they are; essentially just keep hanging out on the slick and having sex, which we continued for a few weeks. all this was 4 weeks ago, and since then we have chilled a little more than we should have and feelings seemed like they were getting a little to clingy on both our parts. however we never really discussed those feelings. but right when i started noticing the clingy feelings from her and myself, she backs off hard. Went from making plans with me and texting me almost every day to not at all. and last week she asked me to go out on a boat trip with her tomorrow and she hasn't even asked me about it since! my question is, being the situation is taboo but i still really enjoyed spending time with her, do i ask her about the plans we had made for tomorrow? do i even text or call her at all? we will be in this program for the next 2 semesters together, so should i maybe try and talk to her about the whole situation? I feel like i can't really ignore her since we will be seeing a lot of each other come August... i'm leaning toward calling and begin like 'so i guess tomorrow isn't happening, btw whats up with us?' obviously, not word it that way but something along those lines i'm some what of a newbie to all this so i hope the answer is not to obvious thanks for the help fellas |
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