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Author:  optimisticdrew [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 9:18 am ]
Post subject:  Did i make the right move?
edited out of paranoia

tl dr; friendzoned, taken advantage of, she started dating someone, stopped being friends with her, shit got awkward real fast(constantly bumping into her around campus)
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 9:35 am ]
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duh.

yes, you made the right move.

she is an idiot.

forget her.

or, better yet, ramp up your game and fuck her, then forget her.

call her up, talk uber-dirty to her, tell her to come over to your place for the time of her life, then be done with it.
Author:  0uch [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:00 am ]
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She is living with the "abundance mentality." That is what you should be doing.

U blew it by playing "safe". It's better to to blow it by being ballsy (at least you learn something). Playing safe will end you up in friend zone, having balls with get you laid.

I personally would have kept her as a friend and used her to hook up with other girls.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:05 am ]
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her talking about other dudes was just shit tests... you should have said to her that you don't give a shit... she is just seeking security from another guy. I've had many girls coming to me and talk about this shit - and picked them up later lol. Woman don't talk to men about other dudes .. woman talk to woman about other dudes.

in contex she was saying ; comfort me , i need security , i want someone to tell me everything is ok. this does not imply you need to comfort her by giving her flowers and talk about it all night. What i mean is you stop her from talking about it by cutting off the conversation topic while not giving a shit.

ignoring her is back .. it's like walking away from something without being honest.

Next time just talk to her again ... if she mension other dudes again just tell her you don't want to talk about that shit.
if she keeps talking about it then just leave, in this case she crossed your boundaries. walk away without saying anything.
before you ignore someone you have to be honest ... if someone is being rude you should tell them to fuck off and walk away.
Author:  optimisticdrew [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:14 am ]
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I can see how it can be a shit test. But first of all, I never ignored her. I stopped initiating after the 'your like a big brother to me' line, and after she started seeing this guy and started asking me for advice on it. Eventually, I guess she got sick of contacting me first all the time and it gradually died. You guys are right, I was just playing it safe. But I mean, do women really shit test that way? If she's going so far to talk about a crush and getting emotional about it, I would have a hard time seeing that as a shit test. I barely knew her at the time as well. Not sure if she decided that I'm not someone she'd date early on, or if she just approached me for friendship(that wouldn't make much sense though?)
Author:  anthonypham [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did i make the right move?
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but when I bump into her on campus I feel the awkwardness between us and makes me wonder if I did the right thing. what do you guys think?

Awkwardness is good. That means there is a tension. And tension means emotions to the girl, so if you press the right buttons [and don't mess things up] you are in!

I have experienced this before: i knew a HB9, gamed her well, went pretty far, then she suddenly flaked on me. This is testing!!!! It is NOT YOU! It is the fact that she tries to filter the AFC's out of her life.

If you leave the game, then she will certainly fucked by someone else. But it will take more time and effort [you should think if she's worth it. If so, please continue with reading].

If she asks you for advice, start every sentence with this:
'I don't know him, but if I was him, I would do........[show DHV, show that you are interested in her personality, not just her looks].

"If he does that, that means he is insecure. I would never do that, but hey I more confident about myself....[DHV].

meanwhile keep on KINO- ing her, touching, smelling hair, the old stuff you know :)
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