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Author:  ace92 [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 7:53 am ]
Post subject:  Confusing Night, Been in the Game for a Few years
So I've known this girl for a while, but she always had a bf. They broke up and I met her at the club last weekend. We ended up hooking up and exchanging numbers. I texted her a couple times and we went to the beach and made out there and just had a good time.

She texted me after telling me that she had a lot of fun and was very happy, and I said me too. Now tonight 2 days later I told her I was going to the club but didnt know which one. She told me the club she was going to(I had plans to go to that club anyways) So I went there danced and got some girls numbers. She came really late, and when I saw her from a distance I yell out her name. I then saw her take some guys hand.

Shes really confusing me because after she came in the club with the guy she asked me to dance and then I saw her get a drink from that guy, and then she wanted to dance again. At this point I didnt know if she was into me or that guy. But her friend kept pushing me into her and telling me to talk to her. So I think her friend knows that she likes me.

The girls told me that they'd be going to an after party and told me to come. They were supposed to text me the address, I waited a half an hour, and when they didnt I called the girl. She didnt pick up.

So now I'm really confused. Im actually into this girl and care more about things then usual. I was thinking of doing some push pull to make her chase me. What do You guys think. I'm kind of lost.
Author:  anthonypham [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 8:53 am ]
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she is into you,

that guy is an AFC to her: he is handy, just to scare off other guys, and he buys her drinks.

See the signs: she invested already lots of time in you, her friends are telling you she in to you, she wanted to dance with you.

Don't let yourself scared off by an AFC!! Because if you do, then you showed DLV! That will place you in the same AFC-area as the other guy!
Author:  ace92 [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:09 am ]
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aight, I was just confused because I would think she would tell me before. I felt played and that never happens to me. Our conversations are onesided though. Do you think I should wait for her to text me. I dont want to convey to much interest.
Author:  anthonypham [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:35 am ]
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aight, I was just confused because I would think she would tell me before. I felt played and that never happens to me. Our conversations are onesided though. Do you think I should wait for her to text me. I dont want to convey to much interest.
Good to hear that you don't let yourself scared off by an AFC!

ALWAYS lead the game, and NEVER WAIT for something to happen (because it won't happen).

Depends on how many times you have texted her. Dont be needy and show confidence. And don't complain about the AFC (she brought him for the drinks and test you for self-confidence :) )

Wait one week and text her as following:

"Meet me at "Club X" at midnight. Only if you dare.
Bring your friend. So he can buy us drinks! "

this is direct, challenging, and you are helping the girl qualifying
the other guy as an "AFC" :) By telling the girl to bring the other guy,
you are showing a lot of CONFIDENCE!!
Author:  ace92 [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 4:40 pm ]
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aight, I was just confused because I would think she would tell me before. I felt played and that never happens to me. Our conversations are onesided though. Do you think I should wait for her to text me. I dont want to convey to much interest.
Good to hear that you don't let yourself scared off by an AFC!

ALWAYS lead the game, and NEVER WAIT for something to happen (because it won't happen).

Depends on how many times you have texted her. Dont be needy and show confidence. And don't complain about the AFC (she brought him for the drinks and test you for self-confidence :) )

Wait one week and text her as following:

"Meet me at "Club X" at midnight. Only if you dare.
Bring your friend. So he can buy us drinks! "

this is direct, challenging, and you are helping the girl qualifying
the other guy as an "AFC" :) By telling the girl to bring the other guy,
you are showing a lot of CONFIDENCE!!
She hasnt texted or called after I called. Is she just playing a game?
Author:  ace92 [ Sat Jun 04, 2011 4:13 am ]
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I cant get her out of my head. It's weird, I never get attached to girls like this. I've been with hotter girls than her. But I'm just so attracted to her. What do I do to forget about her. And she still hasnt texted or called me back.
Author:  anthonypham [ Sat Jun 04, 2011 8:28 am ]
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this is ONe-itis.

Be care ful with that, because you like that girl too much at the moment. Then you can not game well, you are too afraid of losing her, emotionally too involved...

A tip:
- get a pen and paper:
- write down all the contact moments ( hang out, textmessages, calls, FB messages) from beginning till now (see your agenda)
- after every contact moment, indicate with '-/-' for negative/no response, and '+' for positive response
- You will immediately see that you have contacted her a LOT. In a short period. You will notice that the girl will thinkg you are too needy. Also you see
her responses are negative...
Author:  ace92 [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 6:39 am ]
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She's basically running game on me. She does the push pull thing, and I just love the challenge. I've had this happen before. A lot of guys tell me to stop talking to her. But what ends up happening is she then loses interest and I still wont get the chance to fuck her.

So ignoring her will not work. But texting her and things still doesnt work either. So wat do I do. Can I get some advice from a pro that understands what im talking about.

Also, She's always making out with other girls, and she didnt hang out with me today because she was with her 2 girl-friends.
Author:  ace92 [ Mon Jun 06, 2011 6:29 pm ]
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So can anyone help me out with the steps I should take to get the ball rolling with her again. I havent spoken to her in a couple of days. I know you guys say stop talking to her and move on, but I feel like thats just giving up. I want to nail this girl. Its a challenge and I want to win, so how can I get her to text me?
Author:  superunknown88 [ Mon Jun 06, 2011 8:59 pm ]
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Leave her be! If you act like you're not bothered, she'll get in touch.
Author:  ace92 [ Tue Jun 07, 2011 12:39 am ]
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I've tried that before and the it seems like they dont call back and the attraction disintegrates.
Author:  bandito69 [ Tue Jun 07, 2011 12:59 am ]
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i just got into your same situation this past week bro.
Met an amazing girl, hooked up for a night, then had oneitus for a whole week untill i got her to hang out again.(she was push pulling like crazy) you gotta not let your emtotions fuck you up, do the exact opposite your head is telling you to do, because every action you take with bad oneitus, is just sinking you further and further. oneitus is a real moutherfucker.
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Jun 07, 2011 3:25 am ]
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cant get her out of my head. It's weird, I never get attached to girls like this. I've been with hotter girls than her. But I'm just so attracted to her. What do I do to forget about her. And she still hasnt texted or called me back.


This will make your lose her, get back to fundamentals... You are getting oneitis, therefore if there was a bet right now, i would bet you will lose her, TO GET A GIRL YOU MUST BE WILLING TO LOSE A GIRL...
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Jun 07, 2011 3:27 am ]
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If a guy is asking advise about a girl: "he will likely lose her"... Trust me she ain't asking advise about you...
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