Hello gentlemen,
I've been lurking for quite some time but I just registered, so I'll start by thanking you for the wisdom I read there.
As the subject says, I'm experimenting.
Short sweet girl, HB9 most amazing ass I've ever seen (porn doesn't count :p) but two problems : she's a co-worker, and she has a boyfriend, I don't game girls in any of those two categories, but the other guys at the office try to (ridiculously and awkwardly) hit on her, and at a basic level, I feel very challenged by this.
As a little disclaimer, you can call BS, time wasting, pointless, whatever on this and that would be right, I'm killing time on this and more importantly trying new stuff, discovering mechanisms of the women psyche and it pleases me, one other thing I'm not in the US, flirting at the office is not gonna get me fired etc ...
So I've been trying to attract her from under the radar, using mainly social proof (as much as I could at work ), keeping my distance and being cold-ish to her it worked to a point, I'm the one she invited to dance at a company diner, I didn't want to go further, mission accomplished on my behalf.
We've grown a little closer since then, she gave me her #, she talks about family/personal stuff (but she never even mentioned her BF, although everyone seems to be aware of it), I'm not very good at dealing with that situation, I don't really know how I'm supposed to act when she talks about her sister, her upcoming exams, the problems she has with her boss, she's a nice girl so I don't want to be a jerk for the sake of it, but on the other hand I don't want to auto friendzone my ass because one day she might not be my coworker anymore.
I don't have much close girl friends and she'd make a fine one I think, but I'd like to keep other options alive, how would you do that ? I've thought of letting her know very casually that I liked her (probably not using those words) and leaving it at that, but that might not be the best thing to do, do you have any ideas ? I'm a little puzzled and this is exciting, a different kind of exciting than meeting/gaming girls, thanks for reading me, hope you'll have at least an opinion for me
