Hi,
I'm trying to take this girl out on a salsa night.
I never danced salsa but I have been to ballroom dancing for 8 years so I have some clue about it
Thing is I met this girl and started gaming her, told her she should take me out on a date - then she said she has a boyfriend - told her "Awesome, he can buy us both a dinner" - she was laughing and it was all fun. At that point I knew she's older than me.
Took her number, called today and invited her over to a salsa party; She said she can't and I told her OK maybe I'll call you next week. After 2 minutes she called me once again, asking "how old are you ?? I remember you said 22 but I'm not sure" - I told her "That's how good of a listener you are - I can't believe it! I am deeply offended" - She then said "Nonono.....blablabla...So you're 22...I'm 30"
It shouldn't be such a big deal if I wasn't 17.
After few minutes the call went downhill since she told me "You're a man, women are better bla bla bla" - So I told her "Remind me, who's the superior sex?" - She said "of course women" - then I said "Look, I support equality - women should be in the kitchen and the man should go to work" - she was then offended so I told her "Yeah, it's that easy to trick you". After few more minutes the call became dull and she attempted to end it - so I told her "OK, I gotta go - talk to you later".
No idea what to do now. I guess I will wait till next week to call and ask her out on salsa again.
BTW, we met at the mall, she works at some tiny store, she kept asking me on the phone to "come and amuse" her - then I told her "Come with me to salsa then we'll talk"...We might meet each other on the mall (We run a family business nearby) in a few days
I feel like an idiot...(besides I have a girlfriend who is 1 year younger than me, somewhat I am turned on by the 30yrold girl)
Can someone guide me through? (Before telling me I should work on my inner game...the inner game is HUGE - what points should I start working on?)
Read: I am 17, the girl is 30 - not vice-verse!
