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| Author: | ryry [ Tue May 31, 2011 2:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help with this direct approach |
Went up and said he this might sound random but i think youre hot and i had to come and speak to you the girl said uhhhh ok then when i tried to speak to her she woudlnt look at me she kept looking away Anyhelp, what do i do in that situation, i just walked off. But how could i handle that ? |
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| Author: | Blueshell [ Tue May 31, 2011 3:28 pm ] |
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Never qualify her. Never go up and say hey I think you're hot let me talk to you. She'll just think you're a little creepy. You just met her. And she just met you. When you come over, the first two things a girl thinks about is what do you want and how long are you going to be here. So throw in a time constraint somewhere. A variation could be: Hey you look interesting and I thought I'd come over here and introduce myself. If you want, start with a opinion question(I normally go with these, as they always give a basis for discussion if you're stuck): Hey, can I get your opinion on something? My friend as this girlfriend that keeps all of her exs stuff. Do you think that she should get rid of it?(Canned opener, the best friend opener, but applicable to a lot of situations) If she gives you an uhhh okaay response? Eject yourself. Say well it was nice meeting you. And leave. |
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| Author: | Influx [ Tue May 31, 2011 3:40 pm ] |
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You could have replied with a neg and said "Yeah, but you have a U-Shaped smile" and continue with Styles U-Shaped/C-Shaped Routine: c-and-u-shaped-smiles-by-style-vt267.html |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue May 31, 2011 4:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with this direct approach |
Quote: Went up and said
Remember to SMILE and speak slowly and clearly. After she accepts the compliment, make sure to get her name. If she's looking freaked out, that's the time to calibrate and keep it simple. Sometimes a girl, especially if she's young, shy or Asian, will not be used to being approached so directly. Some normal questions will help focus her back and keep the conversation simple and normal. You can also engage her friend(s) and banter with them until she calms down a bit.
he this might sound random but i think youre hot and i had to come and speak to you the girl said uhhhh ok then when i tried to speak to her she woudlnt look at me she kept looking away Anyhelp, what do i do in that situation, i just walked off. But how could i handle that ? |
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| Author: | ryry [ Tue May 31, 2011 6:07 pm ] |
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Blueshell: DO you not, go Direct, btw this is day game Influx: Godo idea however, i dont really liek routines, im tryin to go down the natural route Ryan : Thanks for the advice, weirdly enough she was asian, it was a one set, ive just been approaching one sets SPAM, BTW i used that opener you gave me that worked well, the First pretty girl i see today one Ryan You got any really good adivce i can use im planning to sarge tomos 
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| Author: | Blueshell [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 2:09 am ] |
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hmmm I don't ever do direct quantifiers. It would be a nifty experiment to try indirect and direct and see which one gives me more results. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 4:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with this direct approach |
Quote: Went up and said Better line:he this might sound random but i think youre hot and i had to come and speak to you the girl said uhhhh ok then when i tried to speak to her she woudlnt look at me she kept looking away Anyhelp, what do i do in that situation, i just walked off. But how could i handle that ? "I want to say hi to you as I found you attractive, my name is _______" and it from there. |
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