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| Author: | zookmaster [ Tue May 31, 2011 3:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Too many mixed signals is it time to give up? |
This is a for a hot and cold girl who I have been in contact with for 3 months. She used to call me everyday for 2 months but then stopped. She lost interest it seems and told me she just came out of a long relationship and wants to be single. Her eyes and body language while we are at work shows me she likes me alot(squinting eyes, smiling, watching me, acting like a ***** to break my confidence) as much as she fights our chemistry, she still shows signs that she enjoys being around me. Then she also talks about other guys, how she gets numbers all the time but it seems all a test to me. I told her on the train, while I had my arms around her and as I noticed her talking a little soft to me. I said..."You know....nah nothing...actually, I was thinking, we are tired now, but when we are both 100% we can take on the world...................together" She said "um um what thats mean ya um" then I said "Just me and you, ourselves, no other souls around us we would enjoy things" She was like "umm ye" I tried to go in slowly for a kiss but backed off when she slightly put her chin down. She let me kiss her twice on her cheek but once she put her chin down I thought "if you wanted she would atleast look up at me" How was the comment(s) and do you think it was good I never forced my lips onto hers? Last time we kissed was nearly 3 months ago. I love her but it's too soon for her because she was in a long relationship, I'm just giving it a go just so I can say I tried. |
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| Author: | LVATTEMPTS [ Tue May 31, 2011 1:36 pm ] |
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I dont think you should quit, just game her a little differently. Go out of your way to show you want her with NO strings attached. your comment probably made her think you wanted to be with her as her boyfriend, if you can give her a vibe that you are interested but not needy, and show no jealously, and not demand basically anything out of her other than a good time, I think it would workout. |
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| Author: | zookmaster [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 11:40 am ] |
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I went yesterday to work and saw her so it was like 5 days after this and when I saw her I was distant as I had seen this one guy on her facebook telling her how he feels about her and ****. She said they were just friends so when I got there I just wanted to back off from her. She told me to wait for her after work because she wanted to talk to me and that there was a problem. She was smiling the whole time and when I saw her at the end she waited for me on this wall in front of all our colleagues(out of character) she didn't want me to touch her in front of them or anything because she moved slightly. She told me the problem was somethingto do with her mum nothing much. After she waited for me 10 minutes we got the train and she was acting really different. She was looking at me longingly and we ended up getting the train with two colleagues. For the first time, in front of these guys she turned her body around towards me and was touching my leg with hers and she was staring at me continously. She started talking **** about us getting a hotel together and everytime I turned my head she was still looking at me. It was nice but took me by surprise. |
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| Author: | LVATTEMPTS [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 2:00 pm ] |
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haha, awesome... if a girl wants you, and you appear to be mysterious or disappear a bit, IE shut em out for a little while. they explod back with passion, goodjob |
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| Author: | zookmaster [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 2:07 pm ] |
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lol yeah I might not of gone in for the kiss close if it wasn't for this forum and it seems like she respected me for it and got some attraction for me again. I'm really surprised how she was showing kino in front of a few of our colleagues, talking about sex and us sharing a room and staring at me. now what though? She still doesn't call(last contact she gave me was a txt 3 weeks ago!) and I'm just seeing her at work and she asks me when I'm working alot etc. She is also going away for a few weeks and we won't be able to see her. |
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