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Author:  pu_newb [ Sat May 28, 2011 3:12 pm ]
Post subject:  New to this, few questions
Hi everyone :) Thought I'd give joining these forums a try to improve my game as I pretty much have none!

Bit of background, I'm mid-20's, but have only slept with 3 women, had other sexual contact with a more but not many. I'm apparently not too bad looking, I am just very shy/quiet/not good at generic conversation/small talk with new people, men or women, but obviously women are the reason I am here. ;)

I don't really know when or how to make a move on women even when I think things are going well with them, I have even ended up in the same bed as women I like, not made a move and later found out something could have happened if I wouldn't have been such a pussy! I just don't know what to say or do in these situations?

So anyway, I have given in, admitted defeat and signed up here to ask for help. :P Look forward to learning from you all and maybe making some progress! :)

(This post should have probably gone in the 'Introduce Yourself' section but there doesn't seem to be much discussion going on there so I thought I'd post it here and try to get some answers. :) )
Author:  Validus [ Sat May 28, 2011 3:17 pm ]
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Welcome to the forums, I would say you need to work on your inner game first (confidence). Then start getting into how exactly it all works (David DeAngelo helps a lot to understand how the female brain works). If you give me your email address I can send you an ebook that helps with your inner game and I can send you the link to David De's website. :)
After that, it's up to your sticking points.
Author:  Healz [ Sat May 28, 2011 3:43 pm ]
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Welcome to the forums.

Good words of advice from Validus. I think in the beginning (like with me) knowledge mixed with ongoing experience = power

For the knowledge:- I would suggest studying and learning all you can.

For the confidence:- A good place to start would be The Newbie Test. >>> The Newbie Test

I would also recommend the 'Stylelife Challenge'. It's another one that forces you to get off your backside and get stuff done.

Hope this helps.


Healz
Author:  here2play [ Sat May 28, 2011 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New to this, few questions
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I don't really know when or how to make a move on women even when I think things are going well with them, I have even ended up in the same bed as women I like, not made a move and later found out something could have happened if I wouldn't have been such a pussy! I just don't know what to say or do in these situations?
A lot of times it doesn't matter that much exactly what you say or do as long as you are saying and doing things that move things forward (escalation)

A good thing to take a look at is Vin DeCarlo's escalation ladder. Google it and learn it. Love it. Live it.
Author:  pu_newb [ Sat May 28, 2011 5:07 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice so far guys, I will look into what you have all suggested. :) Validus I will PM you my email address so you can send me that eBook, what are sticking points btw?
Author:  pu_newb [ Sat May 28, 2011 5:11 pm ]
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Don't worry just noticed the sticking points sub-forum. ;)
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