To be honest Mihaxy, even if you only manage to reach that level where you feel comfortable socialising with females, you'll already be leaps and bounds ahead of most of us when we were 15 years old.
I wish you luck
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| Author: | Mihaxy [ Sat May 28, 2011 11:15 am ] |
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Hello there, I'm 15 and I'm pretty new to this PUA thing. I am kind of socially awkward and I don't want to become an AFC when I'm older. So my question is- What's a good age to start sarging? I tried the first aproach of my life yesterday in front of 2 girls. In my mind I was like "Fuck it, you have to start somewhere ". I was with 2 friends so that got me pumped. I just wanted to be rejected, had the crash&burn tehnique in mind. I basically asked them where the nearest mall was then I intrerrupted myself mid-sentence and said i just wanted to talk to them because they were cute. They looked at eachother and cracked a smile. Problem was that I didn't know what to do next, and because I didn't really have in mind to take their number, I just put the accent on the humour style and said "Thanks for the talk, I love you and you too". I felt pretty badass after this. Any tips? |
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| Author: | here2play [ Sat May 28, 2011 1:34 pm ] |
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A good age to start talking to and interacting with and getting to know members of the opposite sex is in the nursery after birth. The vast majority of very young children are actually very good natural PUAs. Once they are able to move around and babble they are actually very good at all of the approach and interaction skills. They make eye contact, they display good body language, they approach and talk freely with each other, they touch and embrace each other and they display dominance and dominant characteristics. It's as we mature that we pick up insecurities, anxieties and hangups. It's once people start telling us that we shouldn't stare that we lose our natural ability to communicate with our eyes. It's when people start telling us to keep our hands to ourselves that we lose our ability to kino. It's when people start telling us that girls are delicate and easily hurt that we start treating them as though they have higher status than us. It's when people start telling us that sex is bad and dirty that we start getting hangups over it. So basically PUA should start at birth and be lifelong process. But most of lose our natural ability and have to learn what nature wants us to do all over again. So the answer to your question is, start again today and take up where you left off the other day when you approached the two girls. Just do what a toddler would do. When you see a girl that pleases your eye, look her in the eyes, hold your gaze, smile, walk up to her and start talking to her and interact with her and get to know her on a personal level. Don't be afraid to touch her (in a nonthreatening and pleasant way, not groping or grabbing) and let nature take it's course. |
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| Author: | Mihaxy [ Sat May 28, 2011 2:41 pm ] |
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Thanks for the feedback. You're right, I remember when I was younger I had no trouble with that. Another question: Is the crash&burn training useful for AA? Or should I try to be serious and actually try to get their phone number? |
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| Author: | here2play [ Sat May 28, 2011 2:50 pm ] |
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Quote: Thanks for the feedback. You're right, I remember when I was younger I had no trouble with that.
Is crash and burn training something the Indy guys to get ready for the race tomorrow? I've never heard of it. sounds painfull to me.Another question: Is the crash&burn training useful for AA? Or should I try to be serious and actually try to get their phone number? Here's the scoop. Get out and look people in the eye, smile and talk to them. Interact with them and get to know them and let them get to know you. Come up with some fun things to do with your buddies and invite some girls to come along and do those fun things with you. While you're out having fun, talk to the girls and flirt with them. If you want to get some gals number, TELL HER to give you her number so you can let her know the next time you are going out somewhere. Don't ask for it like a pussy and act like her number is some kind of big prize for you like you just won the frick'n lottery or something. Tell her to give you her number so you can let her know the next time you and your posse are going out doing something fun so she can tag along. |
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| Author: | Healz [ Sat May 28, 2011 3:15 pm ] |
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To be honest Mihaxy, even if you only manage to reach that level where you feel comfortable socialising with females, you'll already be leaps and bounds ahead of most of us when we were 15 years old. I wish you luck
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| Author: | Mihaxy [ Sat May 28, 2011 4:15 pm ] |
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Quote: To be honest Mihaxy, even if you only manage to reach that level where you feel comfortable socialising with females, you'll already be leaps and bounds ahead of most of us when we were 15 years old.
Thanks, that was a huge confidence boosts! I wish you luck 
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