Hi guys,
i am fairly new to the pick up world. I did a lot of reading and basically i have come up with a few question regarding the topic. i suppose some of them are quite common but i would appreciate if you could answer any question u feel like.
So here goes:
1. Openers - most opener examples i have seen are quite transparent. i mean if i try to open a set with these things, the girls will not fall for it. so basically this means i have to be either ok and direct with it, or just hope that my appearance and body language will do the trick. what i am asking is do u have examples of more sophisticated openers, such that girls will not think i am an idiot asking them?
2. conversation should be natural. but still one should be prepared with a list of topics.
so what are your common smalltalk topics. what things can be brought into conversation without making it ridiculous?
3. in terms of escalating i thought about telling the girl one can say a lot about a person by her hands and then take her hand and kinda read it. do you use it? what interpretation can u give to ones hand?
also maybe it could be funny to do the same with the ear. but not the first date though.4. Hugging - what types are there? as a man i know only one...
5. how do u neutralize guys in set?
6. how do u deal with large sets.
7. FB pick up - i usually comment on the pic. negging a bit and it works. Some pics though have nothing special about them. what are the things u look for in the picture?