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| Author: | lamppost2009 [ Fri May 27, 2011 12:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | What did I do wrong? |
-Went out last night -made EC with cute girl on dancefloor -me and my friend danced wuth her and her friends -teased her by making her open up then dance with one of her friends -start dancing with her and say "i think you're kinda cute" because I want to escalate -she laughs and i say "this is where you tell me i'm cute too" -she makes a playful "no" signal, gesturing with her hand across her throat -I pretend to be heartbroken -we dance again in spurts -club closes and i talk to her -not sure how to escalate but I'm touching her and teasing her, then I say "I think i want to kiss you but I'm not sure" -she just laughs it off -kept moving in to kiss but she just ignored it -she was being friendly and i was being very playful/funny -never got to kiss her, she left to go to burger king Thoughts -I shouldn't have told her I thought she was cute. I only said this because I don;t know how to escalate nonverbally on dancefloor because I can't dance. -When the dancing stopped I should have just led her somewhere, stopped being playful and become more sexual. I had no sexual vibe Any ideas guys? |
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| Author: | thevibe [ Fri May 27, 2011 12:28 am ] |
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u need the vibe for that this is what i did in my first kiss close i asked her what was the most adventouris thing she ever dont i looked at her and kissed her and said wwas that it she said no playfully weird thing i kissed her while her friend was sitting right next to her i screwd up there cause she said her parents texted her and said her parents wanted her back i walked her back and kisset her outside the door i could separate them the point is the cat string theory you made yourself to easy to achieve |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Fri May 27, 2011 2:25 am ] |
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You were too needy, talking too much no challenge... And you do not dance... Plus asking for a kiss, i don't like that... When i am at club i usually do not talk just dance, then escalate little by little by focusing on the girl, you only have a window of opportunity to kiss them none verbally, i usually do this i say hold on hold on let me fix you, then i fix their her by putting the hair behind the ear in the process touching the ear very very lightly, then i brush their eyebrows with my index finger, if they start moving or giggling i say hold hold, you are not done yet, then i say now you look good, i kiss her on the forehead then on each eye, then on each cheek, then on the chin, if she pull back she is not ready, if she is when i kiss on the chin she will not move, then gently very lightly like a wanna be kiss in the mouth, a lot of teasing...hope it helps!!!! I know a lot of puas ask for kisses, i think is weak... I just kiss them, is more natural... |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Fri May 27, 2011 9:32 am ] |
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isn't "i want to kiss you" and "i really want to kiss you" and "i just really want to kiss you" akin to ASKING to kiss her? which is a big no-no? |
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| Author: | Infamous110 [ Fri May 27, 2011 11:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What did I do wrong? |
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kept moving in to kiss but she just ignored it
Not a good reason to stop.
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Fri May 27, 2011 12:08 pm ] |
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if a girl says no she is saying ''NOT YET'' she didn't kick you in the balls when you asked or tried she didn't call you a creepy fuck .... you asked her for it which is a big no no ... you just sound like she rejected you which wasn't the case .... you should have distraced her with some talking - grabbed her head and bashed your tongue into her mouth. wtf do you got to lose ? she wants to get kissed , why fucking waste all these hours talking to this girl without kissing her ? whats the point.... ? |
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| Author: | PUAGame [ Fri May 27, 2011 10:50 pm ] |
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Never ask to kiss. Never. Ever. Never ever ask. Take her off the dance floor to escalate then! Play the Date/Marry/Fuck game for instance. That's always really fun in night clubs. And that'll get the conversation going in the right direction too. |
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| Author: | lamppost2009 [ Fri May 27, 2011 11:34 pm ] |
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Ok guys So what should I have done as soon as i got off the dancefloor? |
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