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| Author: | dtrak [ Thu May 26, 2011 2:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | LONG DiSTAnCE ISSUE - HELP! |
Hi guys, thanks for your time, i'm goin to make this short as possible. I need help. Basically i met my girlfriend a year ago and she's the same age as me, 19, i flew her over from europe after 3 months of meeting her. she came from europe to florida to see me. We had a great connection, i abandoned the game for the 2 months that she was staying over my house. She was pretty much my wifey. After does 2 months she left, we continued our relationship. I returned to the game and went out couple times...had a great time...she doesnt know im a pua. Anyways i love her so my mom lend me money and she came back after 1 month and a half to spend another 3 months with me. Whens she came the second time... i had to abandon the game again...and i had already met some girls and was having fun...anyways i droped all does girls for her. I spent 3 more months with her...faithful and in love...of course i always miss going out and meeting others girls.... but no matter what..i love her because shes great and adorable and loves me. anyways she left a week ago...i am left with no money so i cant go out and meet other girls yet until i get paid. I love going out and i love my girlfriend...so now im faced with a decision. 1. Marry her so this whole long distance relationship thing stops because it sucks being without her.(Even though idk for how long i could be tied down...because i love the game...but i also love her) 2. Continue playing the game and loose the women i love so much and she loves me. I would appriciate the advice guys, thanks. and another question... her friend invited her to a sleepover party...and theres gona be guys... i said no. because i would hate it with me being so far away and other guys hittin on her wud piss me off...even though i trust her. Did i do the right thing? (I do give her freedom to hangout with her friends and have fun, but i dont let her goto parties were theres other guys) am i doing the right thing? - Thanks for your time guys, sorry about the long paragraph. I know is complicated. |
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| Author: | thevibe [ Thu May 26, 2011 2:54 am ] |
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only you know the right answer to that know one can make it for you cause you will regret not making it yourself i cant even let someone pick out my clothes is she a diamend girl the one you quit the game for or do you just love her cause she left and came back will you still love her if you stay by her side the entire time you knew she wasnt going to stay and that she had to leave so do u love her or do you love that you knew she wasnt going to stay |
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| Author: | K0ko [ Thu May 26, 2011 3:34 am ] |
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marriage is a big commitment.People will always give you shit about a one itis but truth is when u find a girl who can be you r best friend and u can love her with everything you got it realy is better just to settle in and give up the game. as long as u can look back and say i enjoyed my single life but i want her more ur good to go. iv been saving this up for the day ill ask a girl to marry me but u might use it. get a dozen roses. 11 real ones and 1 fake one. make sure it sticks out as fake. hand it over to her and tell her i will love you till that last flower withers away. get on your knees and do ur thing |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Sun May 29, 2011 4:21 am ] |
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Thanks for the replies guys, it helps me to see what you guys think. Yea i realize is a decision i'm going to have to make, i'm not going go jump into a decision until im sure what i want because marrige is a big decision, i wouldn't marry her...but is just that for her to stay in this country i need to.(lol) Anyways...she's my best friend and i love her so am just going to give this time....if in the end she is still my best friend and i love her then i will marry her so she can live with me in the usa. Meanwhile, i'm gona play the game. Thanks all for your answers and support. |
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| Author: | Tiger6Niner [ Sun May 29, 2011 7:22 am ] |
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How can you love her if you go out and game other girls when shes not there. Do you allow her to game guys when you 2 are apart? How would you feel if you;re spending all this money to fly her over when shes just going back to jump on someone elses dick while you go searching for more pussy? |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 7:27 am ] |
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exactly, how can i love her.. idk but i do. and i dont allow her to see other guys, and she's great to me, thats why im thinking of giving it all up for her. I go out and game other girls because im trying to find answers to how i feel. If i found out she was with another guy i would be done with her and move on. But she loves me like a mofo and i return that love. Except the only problem is that while i'm with her, yes im attracted to her, but i'm attracted to other girls too... i've even tried letting her know. This is deep, i'm really honest with her and she understands. Therefore i dont want to loose such a great girl. |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 9:54 am ] |
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sounds like a huge one-itis .. lol sounds like she carries you balls around europa in a plastic bag named skippy. you even abandon what you like the most .. going out and game you even talk about getting married ... omg... you sound like me when i was 20 ... glad i past that age in my opinion : getting settled on that age is a huge mistake ... i've seen guys doing it and they come out worse then when they were going in. are you a man ? what is being a man ? what defines a man ? are you a real man ? |
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| Author: | Rethnu [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 10:13 am ] |
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My personal opinion: Thinking back how I was when I was 19-20, I'd have to shoot myself if I'd have married one of my girls back then. How's your financial situation, you said you don't have money to go out gaming, do you have enough money to care for your woman, or for a family? From which country does she come, does she have a good education, will she be able to find a useful work in the US? |
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