This is a very crucial time for you. I can sense you're a little frustrated and discouraged from this "other guy" sighting. But I think this this would be a great opportunity for you to put all of your emotions aside and bust through ( lol no pun intended) Now I'm not really sure what you mean by when you said you saw her with a guy.. was she making out with this guy? talking to this guy? all cuddled close with him? If it's a situation where they were just talking or something then fuck it man, CONTINUE TO RUN YOUR GAME. He could very well be trying to game her too, but you need to get in state and beat him to it ( if that really is the case). My number one tactic for not falling into the friend zone is to amp up my physical game. I dont tell her im attracted to her, I SHOW HER. Also make sure you build rapport and remain cocky funny.
Next: you NEED some kind of close man. I dont really know how many times you've spoken to her but its time to seal the deal. Put all of your fears and insecurities aside for a moment and realize that this is a woman that you desire; and as a man you will do what you have to do to get her.
And lets say, worst case scenario, you don't get her for whatever reason. Walk away stronger knowing that you put your best foot forth.
Your life is waiting, and so is she
good luck
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