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| Author: | Open Pupil [ Mon May 23, 2011 5:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Opinions on a situation with an old female friend please? |
Hi guys, this is a bit long and I am new here but I would really appreciate it if you could help me out. I recently had something happen which I never would have expected, and though I am no pua, it occurred to me a site like this may the best place to ask for advice on this matter. I am a 22 year old male living in Connecticut who just finished college. I have a good friend named Lauren who I have been friends with since freshman year of high school. She has always been good looking (and she's about a 9 now), and I did have a crush on her when I first met her, but never felt it from her, and she usually had a boyfriend so I haven't thought of her in that way in a long time. The boyfriend she is with now she has been with for the past six years. After high school we remained good friends, as far as I know I'm the only guy she really talks to from high school, and I feel that I have always been the one who has been there for her no matter what. Not in the sense that she would come to me with her problems or something, but just that it seemed like we would always be friends. After high school I didn't even talk to her all that often, we would hang out and text for a day or two every few weeks to every few months, we went to different schools and have always been busy, so it's not like we were always around each other, but more like we kept in touch. Sometimes I would have a party at my apartment and she would come, or vice versa, I slept over at her apartment on the couch a few times, she usually got a ride home from mine. So last night I wanted to do something low key, and all of my friends had other plans because I told them all I would help my sister with something that night that I didn't end up doing. So without having talked to her besides a text or two in the past 2 months, I called her up and talked to her for a bit. She basically told me that in a few weeks she might be moving to a different state with her boyfriend. She was already in bed, but agreed to come out with me to a bar. I shotgunned three beers by the time she came over, we talked for a bit and then she drove us to the bar. While walking to the bar her boyfriend came up and she didn't seem to think he liked me because of "how I had always liked her". I asked her what she meant and she said how I had always had a thing for her and stuff, and I basically was shocked and just told her that wasn't true lol. When we got inside we each took a shot. I saw a lot of people I knew and had shots and beers with them, I believe she had two or three drinks all night, whereas I had gotten pretty drunk after being out for 3 hours. She drove us back to my apartment and I was thinking she might just drop me off and say goodbye, but she ended up coming inside. We talked for a bit, and being drunk I laid down on my bed, and to my surprise she climbed ontop of me, straddling me like in reverse missionary style She was sitting on me like that looking at me and she asked me "So you really never had a thing for me?" I was very drunk at this point and just starred at her and said no. I sat up so we were face to face, and felt like I was in that situation like right before you kiss someone. We were hugging and I smelled her neck and our faces touched etc. I remember her starring intensely into my eyes, with a smile, like she was looking at something she really liked. I think this whole thing happened for a few minutes, it may have happened two different times. The only other thing I remember is standing near the bed hugging her for a long time, and then she surprised the hell out of me by cupping her hand and pressing against my cock through my jeans. Neither of us said anything then, and we said goodbye and she left soon after that. I feel a bit dumb writing this here, but I have gotten different opinions from different people. This friendship is very important to me, and while you guys can't decide for me what to do, maybe you could help me understand what she may have been thinking. Thanks for any who offer their opinions. |
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