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Author:  BornInABurialGown [ Sun May 22, 2011 3:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl inviting friend on our date. What...?
I asked a girl out on a second date to the movies, and a day before the movie I get...

'Hey my friend was pretty excited to see the movie too so i invited her for monday hope thats alright. shes purty awesome though ;)'

This could mean:
1) She wants security.
2) She's nervous, and she needs a backup.
3) She wants to see whether her friend approves of me.
4) She doesn't think this is a date (although how someone couldn't after it being explicitly implied many many many times, I don't fricking get).
5) She's a sadist.
6) I am hopeless with women.
Author:  meisdi90 [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:02 pm ]
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How old is she? I wouldn't go on this date since it will SUCK. Been there, done that, know what I'm saying. You could bring your good friend that would take care of this additional lady, but still, saying FUCK NO to this stupid idea would work best, of course with explanation why you don't wanna do this.
Author:  BornInABurialGown [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:03 pm ]
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I can only contact her by phone, because this is the only way she'll respond. Should I just ask her, 'why the fuck are you bringing a girl when I asked you out on a date..???'
Author:  meisdi90 [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:09 pm ]
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Well that's definitely a way of doing this. Also you could just state that she's being very immature, tell that you didn't expect that coming and then chill for some time. No calls from her means she's not worth your time and it's good that you found it out now, not then.
Author:  T-Bones [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:12 pm ]
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I can only contact her by phone, because this is the only way she'll respond. Should I just ask her, 'why the fuck are you bringing a girl when I asked you out on a date..???'
Don't ask this girl anything. Nothing says low interest level like a girl bringing a friend on a date. You're on the fast track to the friendzone. Cancel the date, and throw her phone number away.
Author:  BornInABurialGown [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:15 pm ]
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Is it possible that she is interested, but still not comfortable, hence the security blanket?

Also, certainly she could be a complete flake, but why wouldn't I atleast go through this so I have some experience. Whether or not I get trampled on, atleast I will be able to form a certain opinion, and work from there...
Author:  Anarchy99 [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:18 pm ]
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Its a pretty lousy thing to do on a date.
Maybe she sees it as mates meeting up rather than being an actual date.

If thats the case maybe next time take greater care not to fall into the friends zone.
Author:  BornInABurialGown [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:20 pm ]
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It's possible to fall in the friend zone when.. we've only had one date?
Author:  meisdi90 [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:21 pm ]
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If you didn't build any attraction & acted like total puss, yeah.
Author:  T-Bones [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:23 pm ]
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Is it possible that she is interested, but still not comfortable, hence the security blanket?

Also, certainly she could be a complete flake, but why wouldn't I atleast go through this so I have some experience. Whether or not I get trampled on, atleast I will be able to form a certain opinion, and work from there...
How old are you? Maybe I'm biased because of my age, but I would never get into a situation like this. What experience? Experience at being friends with girls? Get experience with a new girl that's interested. It's an insult in my opinion.
Author:  BornInABurialGown [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:24 pm ]
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How do I act not like a puss, or build attraction? Throw my hand down her pants.. say she's sexy.. pee on her? Seriously..?
Author:  Anarchy99 [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:28 pm ]
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How do I act not like a puss, or build attraction?
Ive heard PUAs talk about different stages or phases.
You have to keep escalating.
Move from the opening phase to the comfort phase to the attraction phase etc.

It sounds like you stayed in the comfort phase.

Im not experienced to talk any further on this so Im hoping somebody more experienced can explain this in more detail.
Author:  T-Bones [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:31 pm ]
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How do I act not like a puss, or build attraction? Throw my hand down her pants.. say she's sexy.. pee on her? Seriously..?
It's obvious you have no idea what 'the game' is all about. Look for a section with pick-up materials on this site, and start there. Take it from someone that's been in the game for 20 years. You have no chance with this girl.
Author:  BornInABurialGown [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:34 pm ]
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I am attractive, intelligent, and have a quirky personality. This isn't enough? I need to learn magic tricks to get women, now?
Author:  T-Bones [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:36 pm ]
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I am attractive, intelligent, and have a quirky personality. This isn't enough? I need to learn magic tricks to get women, now?
Are you unaware of the concepts this website is built around?
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