Okay I'm 6 ft 4-5 in andI can tell you it's not always good to be taller than everbody else. Sometimes it's annoying specially with short girls
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| Author: | PSyKaD4LiC [ Sun May 22, 2011 3:49 am ] |
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I am 5 foot 5 inches which places me in the bottom 10% for height, but thankfully I am good looking, have a good body shape, and not balding or anything like that. Fashion could be improved. However, the height thing really effects my confidence when I am talking to women. Is there any good methods for mentally getting past a feature such as shortness, ugliness, balding, etc, if they are having a negative effect on that individual's confidence? |
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| Author: | PSyKaD4LiC [ Sun May 22, 2011 12:41 pm ] |
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| Author: | marquito42 [ Sun May 22, 2011 1:10 pm ] |
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Okay I'm 6 ft 4-5 in andI can tell you it's not always good to be taller than everbody else. Sometimes it's annoying specially with short girls
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| Author: | Anarchy99 [ Sun May 22, 2011 1:12 pm ] |
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Height is only an issue if you make it one. DJ Fuji is small and he is a fantastic PUA. Neil Strauss is small and he wrote the Game (literally) |
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| Author: | PSyKaD4LiC [ Sun May 22, 2011 1:25 pm ] |
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Haha ok thanks that is what I needed to hear. Out of curiosity, how tall are DJ Fuji and Neill Strauss? |
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| Author: | meisdi90 [ Sun May 22, 2011 3:29 pm ] |
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Neil Strauss isn't over 170cm (around 5"6 tops). |
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| Author: | PSyKaD4LiC [ Mon May 23, 2011 3:12 am ] |
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Thanks for the post. I found this video which is also exactly what I needed to hear: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apEoEbyIEO8 In the video he mentions Easy-E who is 5'5" and Al Pacino who is 5'7". LOL |
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| Author: | Jay Sky [ Mon May 23, 2011 1:27 pm ] |
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I have a particular outlook for any physical defect which affects my perfomance. Whether it's because I have a huge spot, right bang in the middle of my nose, or it's because I'm so tall that I actually feel underconfident as all eyes are on me (as I used to), this outlook gets me past my insecurities. They are going to notice anyway. It is inevitable that they will flaw you on your height, as for the majority of girls, being short isn't attractive. Accept it. Fact. However, confidence is more attractive than height. Would you rather the girls see that you are short, underconfident and insecure - or them make the conclusion that you are a cute, massively confident alpha who is certainly boyfriend material? The more you pay attention to your flaws, the more she will pick up on a lack of confidence. Accept it, and focus on the things which compensate for your flaws. |
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