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| Author: | Anarchy99 [ Sun May 22, 2011 1:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Solo Sarging - can it work? |
Hey guys can it work? Is it weird? The reason Im asking is because I dont really have anybody to go into the field with |
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| Author: | thinhman [ Sun May 22, 2011 2:05 am ] |
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Of course it works. Most of the guys I now start out alone. How do you think you get good at it? I'm a firm believer that you'll actually learn faster out alone than with your buddies. Now, if one of your buddies happens to be really good at this AND analysis of your game, then you might be better off bringing him along, but chances are, your friends aren't like that. Why? Well, first of all, it's somewhat more difficult on learning when your buddies are around. You're gonna be chatting with them and you're gonna be distracted from analysing how good (or bad) your approach was. How can you fix what you don't know you need to fix? Also, you get balls of steel faster when going solo. No posy to help you back up. You gotta be a man and will yourself back up. |
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| Author: | Anarchy99 [ Sun May 22, 2011 2:26 am ] |
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Thats all well and good but after you have been speaking to a girl for 20mins in a bar etc, what happens when she asks who you are with or where your friends are etc. Are you meant to say they are over there and point in some vague direction? |
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| Author: | PSyKaD4LiC [ Sun May 22, 2011 2:49 am ] |
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Yes I think it can work. I do not see any reason why not. I think ideally it would be most beneficial for a group of PUAs to go out together, which would allow them to work on their own game and also observe the game of fellow PUAs. Does this type of thing happen? |
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| Author: | GKS [ Sun May 22, 2011 3:58 am ] |
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It's the quickest way to improve fast. And best way to strengthen your inner game, because you can't rely on no one except yourself, you can't use your wingmen as your excuse either. But I suggest do daygame for solo because night game willl put more pressure on you since everyone come to bar/club with their friends, you will feel more awkward if you're alone. The first couple times I sarged alone at the mall, I had to give myself 15 min pep-talk before I was be able to gather enough courage to open sets. But once you open 1 or 2 set, it get easier. |
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| Author: | thinhman [ Sun May 22, 2011 11:24 am ] |
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Quote: what happens when she asks who you are with or where your friends are etc.
Well, I don't really like lying, so personally, I'd tell her the truth.Are you meant to say they are over there and point in some vague direction? "I'm here with you." Get it? Reply iwth a witty and charming answer. If you're doing a good job of building attraction, she wont really care about your friends. |
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| Author: | Anarchy99 [ Sun May 22, 2011 11:26 am ] |
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Does anybdoy know what to do if your asked "where are your friends?" or "who are you with?" when your sarging alone? |
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| Author: | Obi [ Sun May 22, 2011 3:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Solo Sarging - can it work? |
Quote: Hey guys can it work? Is it weird?
The reason Im asking is because I dont really have anybody to go into the field with I solo sarge my friends are timid and don't hit on women, so I'll go shoot the shit with them a bit, then I'll go hit on women alone, I alternate between the two. When I do go out with a few friends who are also willing / good at picking up women, winging eachother we oddly get worse results. So I do find it as a viable option and at times a better option. Now if you're referring to just going out and doing this completely alone with no friends present, I don't do it but my brother does from time to time (when no ones available to go out), and he's gone to some insane clubs to do it alone too, not weird at all. |
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| Author: | Anarchy99 [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Solo Sarging - can it work? |
Quote: I solo sarge my friends are timid and don't hit on women, so I'll go shoot the shit with them a bit, then I'll go hit on women alone, I alternate between the two.
Yea I do this - but I want to improve my game and head out a lot and my friends dont want to head out etc, So most of the time I have the choice to stay in or go out on my own.My question is more on the specifics. Now as you you said its relatively easy to hit on women and then go shoot the shit with your mates but if your on your own, in between hitting on chicks what do you do? You have no mates there to use as a base. I know in theory you are meant to just chat to people there but thats hard etc. Does anybody have any advice on this? Maybe go in and open a set that you can use as a base for the night? Any ideas guys? |
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