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Author:  Rude_boy [ Sat May 21, 2011 11:03 pm ]
Post subject:  What to do in between dates?
I went on a date, it went pretty well, but its gonna be a while (3 weeks) before we can see each other again.

what should I do in the meantime? Should I text/phone her, if so how often? or do you think it would be best to just wait?

Thanks
Author:  mickeyjackson21 [ Sat May 21, 2011 11:07 pm ]
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best to text every other day or every two days. keep the fire from the date going.
Author:  T-Bones [ Sun May 22, 2011 2:42 am ]
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Wait a week with no contact then call her, and tell her you are going out of town, and set another date up for when you get back into town.

If she likes you and knows she's going to get to see you again when you get back you shouldn't need to fan the fire with text messages.
Author:  PSyKaD4LiC [ Sun May 22, 2011 2:44 am ]
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Hmmm interesting this is also a question I have and looks like you've gotten 2 different conflicting replies thus far? Any other insight about what to do in between dates?
Author:  GKS [ Sun May 22, 2011 2:51 am ]
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This happened to me before, the HB7 went on a vacation in Hawaii for about 3 weeks. I randomly txt her in the weekend to keep the fire going, mainly also because she was there to relax, I didn't want to be needy. I don't think every other day or every 2 days is a good idea, with 3 weeks, that would be almost more than 10 small talks, not good for attraction. You want to every 5-6 days or so, the first 2 times, just teasing and fluff talk with her to build more comfort and attraction, just a few txts should be enough. Be a mystery to her, and save the deep rapport for in peron. When she is about to come back or when she's back, txt her again and suggest a meetup.
Author:  T-Bones [ Sun May 22, 2011 2:54 am ]
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Hmmm interesting this is also a question I have and looks like you've gotten 2 different conflicting replies thus far? Any other insight about what to do in between dates?
I just personally don't like text messaging period. That's just how I play.

If the girl knows in her mind she's going to see you again (on a date) and her interest level in you is really high it is my opinion it is the anticipation of seeing you that really builds the attraction. Assuming everything else has gone right, if he's kissed her goodnight, etc. I think this situation can actually be a good thing.
Author:  PSyKaD4LiC [ Sun May 22, 2011 3:41 am ]
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Hmmm interesting this is also a question I have and looks like you've gotten 2 different conflicting replies thus far? Any other insight about what to do in between dates?
I just personally don't like text messaging period. That's just how I play.

If the girl knows in her mind she's going to see you again (on a date) and her interest level in you is really high it is my opinion it is the anticipation of seeing you that really builds the attraction. Assuming everything else has gone right, if he's kissed her goodnight, etc. I think this situation can actually be a good thing.
Can I ask your age? What do you do if a girl texts you something stupid like "what's your favorite color?" ?
Author:  T-Bones [ Sun May 22, 2011 4:33 am ]
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Hmmm interesting this is also a question I have and looks like you've gotten 2 different conflicting replies thus far? Any other insight about what to do in between dates?
I just personally don't like text messaging period. That's just how I play.

If the girl knows in her mind she's going to see you again (on a date) and her interest level in you is really high it is my opinion it is the anticipation of seeing you that really builds the attraction. Assuming everything else has gone right, if he's kissed her goodnight, etc. I think this situation can actually be a good thing.
Can I ask your age? What do you do if a girl texts you something stupid like "what's your favorite color?" ?
I'm 35, but my dating pool is from 19 through lower to upper 20's. I set the tone of how things are going to go early in the relationship. If a girl starts texting me over and over and calling me I will tell her I want to save it for our next date. Usually, I think some girls are intrigued by this. It adds to your mystery. It might piss others off, but I don't really care. I just reach for the next phone number. I've even told some girls that I've disabled texting with my wireless provider.

Don't get my wrong if a girl just shoots me a text every now and again I will reply with something witty, but I don't make it a priority and I never initiate it. I think texting makes it easier for girls to blow you off and puts the ball in their court to play more games themselves. I look at it like an electronic leash. I follow a rule that the phone should only be used initially to set up dates. I call her and set a date up and get off the phone. Once I know I've got her and things are looking more long term I loosen these rules a bit.
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