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Author:  Ammo101 [ Mon May 16, 2011 5:29 pm ]
Post subject:  How to act with woman
Now I'm not asking how to act with woman if you want to pick them up but i'm talking about other woman. For example if you work with woman or you go to a school with woman where you have a professional relationship with them, how do you act towards them.

I know that I can practice on them a bit but on the other hand I have to be professional, you know. Since i'm startinging to learn the art of pick up it's been kind of hard for me to know how to really act towards woman i'm not trying anything with. Anybody knows what I mean and got some tips?
Author:  mickeyjackson21 [ Mon May 16, 2011 5:41 pm ]
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you can act the same way but less intensive than you would with a girl that you liked. You can use push and pull technique, positive and negative validation, empathy and rapport building and practice all of your other convo skills except there are some boundaries you should not cross especially in the work place.

you cannot be or be direct in any sexual way or else they women in the work place can make a complaint about you and you'll be sent a sexual harassment notice. best not to do any kino/sexual/prolonged touching but it's ok to do a quick hand on the shoulder, or checking out a piece of jewelry they're wearing. also it is best not to have any contact details such as a phone number or social network info, dont want the chance of any office romance lol.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude ;-)
Author:  Ammo101 [ Mon May 16, 2011 6:51 pm ]
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you can act the same way but less intensive than you would with a girl that you liked. You can use push and pull technique, positive and negative validation, empathy and rapport building and practice all of your other convo skills except there are some boundaries you should not cross especially in the work place.

you cannot be or be direct in any sexual way or else they women in the work place can make a complaint about you and you'll be sent a sexual harassment notice. best not to do any kino/sexual/prolonged touching but it's ok to do a quick hand on the shoulder, or checking out a piece of jewelry they're wearing. also it is best not to have any contact details such as a phone number or social network info, dont want the chance of any office romance lol.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude ;-)
Thanks for the post man, so if I'm right you are basically saying: practice but no (real) touching?
I think the hardest thing is that people that I used to interact with sort of expect me to act the way i've always had. And in some way unconciously you get molded back into that old person, guess I just got to fight it and keep interesting.
Author:  mickeyjackson21 [ Mon May 16, 2011 6:58 pm ]
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why do you have to act in a particular way that people you know will expect you to? you can even practice your pua and conversation skills on people you know, and they'll find that you have become a better, confident person which they'll enjoy more. you dont have to change for anyone expect for yourself.

a friend of mine found it the same way. early in his childhood he was an intravert, lack of confidence and convo skills. years later, the people that knew him back then will think that they have just met a completely different person, whereas people who you just met will think that you have been the same confident self all your life. its amazing how some people people perception of you can change over time through vigorous self reconstruction.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude ;-)
Author:  Tiger6Niner [ Mon May 16, 2011 7:05 pm ]
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Depends. Most of the time I just treat them like the boys and hold back on using the word cunt
Author:  Ammo101 [ Mon May 16, 2011 7:48 pm ]
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why do you have to act in a particular way that people you know will expect you to? you can even practice your pua and conversation skills on people you know, and they'll find that you have become a better, confident person which they'll enjoy more. you dont have to change for anyone expect for yourself.

a friend of mine found it the same way. early in his childhood he was an intravert, lack of confidence and convo skills. years later, the people that knew him back then will think that they have just met a completely different person, whereas people who you just met will think that you have been the same confident self all your life. its amazing how some people people perception of you can change over time through vigorous self reconstruction.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude ;-)
I get what you mean. If you are in a formed group of people it's harder to change because they act in a way that makes you act in a way, it's all about persistance i guess. Thanks for the advice!
Author:  Ammo101 [ Mon May 16, 2011 7:48 pm ]
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Depends. Most of the time I just treat them like the boys and hold back on using the word cunt
And you don't when you are picking up woman?
Author:  Imar [ Mon May 16, 2011 8:19 pm ]
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If they are within a respectable age, I just do the same as always, except explicit language. Really awesome if she starts to get girly. And it's good practice.

And as said before, you can practice your pua-thing on female friends. They love it in general.

Conclusion: just be a very, very naughty man.
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue May 17, 2011 1:21 pm ]
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Treat them like you do you best buddie. Hit,tease, tell jokes an just have a great time. With the occasional sexual comments and touches. It's really nothing to it. Woman don't want to be treated like some ice princess. Treat them as you would any of your guy friends that your really close with. Hug shake hands an laugh an smile alot.
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