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| Author: | drbergzoid [ Sun May 15, 2011 8:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | going on a date, need some advice |
hi guys the story is the following: i met a very lovely girl in a bar and gamed her a little bit. I did everything most pua's say you must do, that is mainly that you act like you are the prize and not her. Actually i was just flirting with her, the old fashion way, but i'm not really into all of this yet so my game isn't calibrated and overdid it a bit. I did maneged to give her my number (i should have asked her's). A few weeks later she actually texts me if i liked to do something. We arranged something, but i called off because i had a lot of work and was to tired. I sad i would take her out another time. She was ok with that. I asked her out the next week to go to a music concert, but she had a test the next day so couldn't come (where both in college). She said she was sorry and wanted to meet the next week, which is this week. I think i'm just going to ask her out for a drink in a quiet, cosy bar because i've got a lot of work and i only have spare time in the evening. Now i got 2 questions for you: 1) My problem is that i always get stuck in friends zone, i never really can transfer a sexual state (although i'm not bad looking and quite atlethic) How would you text her in a powerful, playful still little sexual way to invite her for a date? Instead of just being boring, i want to set the mood before we actually meet, you know? 2) I'm not a good conversationalist. I'm a good speaker and writer, but i just hate small talk and find it very hard to keep (even with my friends) the conversation going. I don't say much in general, most of the time a would just have a witty remark or something. If you were me, how would you make a good conversation? I've read about multiple threading, so you you can always fall back on something, give comments on what she is wearing etc. But how would you, specificly start and continue the conversation? When and how do i do kino, how do you change subjects, how do you keep it interesting all the time, do you mix some minor nlp in it? etc. I just feel that if i go out i well have a good conversation, but that isn't good enough, it will get me stuck in friends zone. I need a great, no a superb conversation that suble shows some sexual interest, so i can close with a kiss and even keep her wanting more. How would you do that? Very specific, how would you begin, start multiple theads (which threads?)?, escalate physicly and so on (sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language) |
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