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| Author: | vaybebaybe [ Thu May 12, 2011 7:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to deal with silences during Conversations |
Hey, I have been wondering this for a while, although I have had many successful conversations in the past with beautiful women, I however, struggle when the woman in question doesn't show that much interest and it is me who is having to keep the conversation alive most of the time. Have anyone of you got any ideas as to what to do when the conversation goes silent, as I am just seventeen and my targets who I usually try to sarge are HB 8's and 9's who are over twenty most of the time. So, kino escalation would probably freak them out due to my age. So, if you could give me any advice as to what to do in this situation as I am sure this situation occurs for most of the guys who are starting out in Picking Up Girls. Cheers Vay |
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| Author: | anthonypham [ Thu May 12, 2011 8:18 pm ] |
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I have that too, those silence in conversations. I am still working on my game and frame. But did you know that silences are not that bad as we think? We overthink sometimes. THe last time I had a sort of awkward silence in a conversation, I used my fingertops to hit a rythm on her leg/thigh [kino]. You bounce with your body and pretend to have fun while thinking about a rythm [DHV]. And the conversation will start again 
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| Author: | jaminv [ Thu May 12, 2011 8:25 pm ] |
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Somewhere in this board, there was a post where it was recommended that you allow the woman to break the silence. Instead of being uncomfortable with the awkward silence, you should learn to be perfectly comfortable with it. So I tried this on a recent first date with someone, and it worked incredibly! Not only did she break the silence relatively quickly every time, she usually did so by telling stories. I would then respond in kind with a story from my experiences, and the conversation ended up going really well. I came of as a guy who was a good listener, pretty good with conversation, with some cool experiences, and a lot in common with her. Normally I have trouble with conversations with people I've just met, so I was really suprised at how well this works. The core concept behind it is that silence is tension. When you break the silence, you diminsh the tension. As far as the kino goes, I don't see how that would be a problem. Kino kind of telegraphs sexual intent, which I think is actually good in your position. You'd have much better luck trying to seduce an older woman that you would trying to date/LTR her. She's gonna worry about your maturity if the relationship were to get serious, but if it's purely sexual, she's just going to worry about your sexual prowess. If you're confident about your kino, those thoughts will pass quickly. Your age actually works to your advantage here, because you are on the verge of your sexual prime. In my experience, kino makes women vulnerable. You can meet a strong, independant woman, and you lay your hand on your shoulder and you can almost feel her vulnerability through your hands. Try it. I think you'll be suprised with the results. |
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| Author: | GKS [ Fri May 13, 2011 12:58 am ] |
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Read 60 Years of Challenge ! |
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| Author: | Closer21 [ Fri May 13, 2011 6:45 am ] |
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Quote: Read 60 Years of Challenge !
Link anyone?
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| Author: | Amadieus [ Fri May 13, 2011 12:56 pm ] |
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Yeah like some1 said, silences are not that bad, just be very comfort with it! |
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| Author: | jaminv [ Fri May 13, 2011 1:32 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Read 60 Years of Challenge !
Link anyone? |
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| Author: | Mr_Elusive [ Fri May 13, 2011 1:46 pm ] |
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When I saw the thread title I was going to recommend 60 Years of Challenge right away but a few guys beat me to the punch. Definitely read that.. |
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| Author: | JhonTerry [ Fri May 13, 2011 4:21 pm ] |
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A lot depend on the Formality of the meeting.Business conversation are usually for short period and the people just discuss the business stuff.(serious matter there).The Opposite is the case with the non formal meetings( you can break out the silence any time). http://notyouraveragebootcamp.com/ |
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