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Author:  Eric Ace [ Wed May 11, 2011 10:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Friend Zone-ish & Taken for a RIDE....HELPPP !!!
Meet this girl about 8 weeks now (HB9/10...She Models for a living..lol)
Ok, so since meeting her we started to hang out like every other day, going here and there, she being quite an adventurous girl, at this stage I was not into her for a relationship at all, and she also was going through a recent break up and didn’t want a relationship at the moment, so I didn’t make any major moves.

I also discovered her best friend seem not to like me from day 1, and basically cockblocked me at a party we once attended. I got angry at the party and basically went off dancing with other girls, not seeing them for the rest of the night. I later apologized for this, which she said was ‘not cool’ how I just left.
However due to the business I am into, after getting more friendly with her I offered to help her career, giving her loads of stuff that a normal client would pay $$$$, I gave her free. (Advertising & PR).

At this stage of things I thought things were going pretty well, to me I viewed it as a peak moment. We would spend hours on the phone as she would constantly want to talk to me, she wanted to go everywhere with me and literally she found every possible way to have me immersed in her life. I was introduced to all her friends, family etc…..but however that’s when I started to get a bit bothered, cause I was introduced as “her friend”…..Moving on now, I showered this girl with everything she wanted just to make her happy, I basically gave my power to her, she had access to everything I had etc.

Fast forward 7-8 weeks, after I aiding in her career which catapulted her into a realm beyond her expectations, both our times spending together became less due to work, however we kept in touch everyday via phone etc, and we would now hang out like only twice a week.

PRESENTLY: I was out of the country for 2 weeks due to business, on my return I noticed her interest level in me drop a bit, only to find out she kinda meet someone, and she didn’t mention this to me until I started to initiate conversation about being single. As of recently we were talking and somewhere in the conversation she made the statement “You don’t have with me what I have with XXXX” …. =/

For the past week, I have literally just dropped communication with her to the bear minimum, and at the moment I feel used, like I was taken for a ride..

YEAHH GUYS I KNOW>>> I EFFED UP BIG TIME !! …….BUT PLEASEE, HOW DO I GET BACK THIS GIRL AND GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE =(
Author:  Eric Ace [ Thu May 12, 2011 2:38 am ]
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brrrrr...any advice ?! lol :?
Author:  bandito69 [ Thu May 12, 2011 2:51 am ]
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your best bet is to game her friends, still keep in touch with her family. never been in this situation but those are my suggestions, show her you dont need her and can have any chick ya want.

however you shouldv made it clear early on that you like her/want to progress with her. you cant let her decide if she wants to be friends or lovers. (avoid that because there is a possibility that she can just say ljbf)

when you didnt progress past the friends part she figured all you good for was a friend. voluntarly helping her out with her work. without expecting anything back is an afc move. she thrives on her looks to get her places because.. she can lol

so social up and be "the man"
game her friends and get close to them while mildly freezing her out the group untill she decides that your more then just a lousy friend.

hope this helps bud
Author:  spandrel [ Thu May 12, 2011 3:02 am ]
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after getting more friendly with her I offered to help her career, giving her loads of stuff that a normal client would pay $$$$, I gave her free.
Giving someone something for free is something a friend does.
Author:  T-Bones [ Thu May 12, 2011 3:18 am ]
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The reason you don't hear people getting out of the friend-zone is because they don't, and your chances are slim to none.

Your best bet is to go no contact. Ignore calls, emails, contact etc. for an extended period (months) See if she comes back into your life in any way. If she does you're going to have to run serious game. Ask her on a date. Say the word 'date'. If she declines move on forever or be her little errand boy like you were in the beginning if you're cool with that.
Author:  spandrel [ Thu May 12, 2011 3:24 am ]
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The reason you don't hear people getting out of the friend-zone is because they don't, and your chances are slim to none.
I do. The only woman who has put me there is a girl who was raped and abused by a big, dominant guy, and now is afraid of big, dominant guys. She also makes a good enough friend that I really don't care.

Tip for getting out of the friend zone: Take her gently by the hair and kiss her. Be gentle but firm. Say nothing about it but try fairly hard to screw the shit out of them every time you see them. They will either quit talking to you (never happened to me) or give in.
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Your best bet is to go no contact. Ignore calls, emails, contact etc. for an extended period (months) See if she comes back into your life in any way. If she does you're going to have to run serious game. Ask her on a date. Say the word 'date'. If she declines move on forever or be her little errand boy like you were in the beginning if you're cool with that.
I agree with this. Non contact has a great way of resetting things somehow. If she was ever attracted to you, she will forget the bad stuff and will begin to miss you.
Author:  Eric Ace [ Sat May 14, 2011 8:23 pm ]
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Hey guys excellent excellent advice.......after joining PUAforums, and started watching/reading alot of material i really saw all the wrong stuff I did...basically as you guys put it, major AFC moves. And also after watching a video with AFC Adam, I realize i was being a "provider" which equals FAIL..lol

The freeze out and non contact things seems to be working so far, have already cut off all benefits the girl had from my company etc.

I already saw within the past couple days she have tried to contact me, leaving messages etc, however I think i wanna freeze her out some more, and see what happens.

I started gaming other girls already. and one of her friends, lets see how this affects her.

THANKS for all the advice so far...anymore is Gladly welcomed :)
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