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The old "enjoy yourself while you can" cliché..
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Author:  Bodega [ Tue May 10, 2011 3:53 pm ]
Post subject:  The old "enjoy yourself while you can" cliché..
People always say to me "enjoy yourself while you can, you're only young once!", and I definitely agree with it. Yes you can mess around (well, shag around) when you're 35, 40, even 50, 55.. but the consequences can be somewhat more substancial.

I'm 19, and i'm trying to get into PUA to improve my confidence and my game in general, purely to try and increase the amount of girls I sleep with. However, most, if not all of my mates are the complete opposite. Most are very shy, and aren't very helpful to go out with (they cockblock more than wingman me), and those who are sexually active seem more adament on having relationships.

One of my mates just came out of a 2 year relationship, literally a week later he was seeing another girl, not sexually, but just to see how things go (and then obviously introduce sexual activities down the line) - to me, this is weird, when you've got years ahead of you with families and possibly kids, why waste your childhood? I know it's personal preference, but it seems a waste to me.

I've been in a couple of relationships (only about 6 months long), and despite the fact I get bored of the same girl, it always ends with me getting my head fucked. Therefore playing the field seems a safer, and more enjoyable option in my opinion.

So for the older among us... what worked for you? Did you fuck around as much as possible in your teenage years? I'm just after a few stories, share the process etc etc!
Author:  MaxSeduction [ Tue May 10, 2011 4:46 pm ]
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I'm 30 now. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20. Then I fucked around a lot in my 20s once I started to get better at it.

I recommend you take advantage of this time to have fun and play the field, but be careful. From experience, I saw a lot of my friends accidentally knock up girls they weren't very interested in. They're not together as a couple anymore, but they have kids to feed now and bitchy ex-gfs/ex-wive to deal with. Don't let that happen to you!

The thing about getting older is that, after a few years, the constant playing around and hitting the clubs gets a little boring. You start seeing patterns, like how this hot girl you're talking to is like a dozen others you've met before, or you realize that you're in a rut and it's just not fun anymore. There will come a time when you'll be ready to settle down.

But for now, enjoy it, man! If you find a good girl you really like, stick with her, but you may as well have fun while this is all new and interesting for you! Sow your oats and get some stories to tell your kids and grandchildren some day!
Author:  Txacoli [ Tue May 10, 2011 4:59 pm ]
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I agree. A lot of young boys can't wait to get into a relationship because having regular sex is something they haven't had before. While it's ok to be with a girl you really like, a lot of guys go into total AFC mode during their first relationship and just keep doing it their whole lives. Some get fed up of being an AFC (like me yay :)) and end up playing the field in their 30's because they spent their 20's in relationships! So yeah, definitely play the field now ;) Find a wingmen here if your friends are cockblocks, or find some new friends to go sarging with.
Author:  Bodega [ Wed May 11, 2011 8:47 am ]
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Both really good replies, thank you both.

I definitely agree regarding being careful. Truthfully I haven't been too careful in the past, but (touchwood) i've got nothing to show for it, and i've turned the corner!

One of my friends who comes from a rich family told us last week that his girlfriend of 2 months is pregnant, and she's keeping it. She can barely afford the rent on her flat, and she's blatantly using him/the baby to get money off his family. It's pathetic, and as much as I think he's an idiot for falling into her trap, I can't help but feel sorry for him.

It's a real eye-opener!
Author:  Amadieus [ Wed May 11, 2011 5:52 pm ]
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I totally agree, im 19yo old, and before i started PUA i could get 3-4 girls a year.
Now after doing PUA for 7-8 months im already doubling the amount of girls i get.

Im glad i discovered this now and i will keep gaming on until i find a girl at wich i really think that this is the one.
In my whole life i only felt in love with one girl, so i got a long time to game me thinks hehe ;)

But just like you myn main reason for PU is getting more girls.
But im also very very exciting about the aspect of what girl think and how they act.

Goodluck on your journey!
Author:  KayB [ Wed May 11, 2011 9:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The old "enjoy yourself while you can" cliché..
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So for the older among us... what worked for you? Did you fuck around as much as possible in your teenage years? I'm just after a few stories, share the process etc etc!
First of, thx for saying older and not old :D

For me, I have a tendensy to be a manslut now after my 7yo relationship went down the drain:D :D Just have a good time, enjoy the women in all ways possible :)

When you find someone more interesting than the onenightstands, you get to know her better to check if there is something more than just the physical, if there isnt..well, then you just continue :)
Author:  Txacoli [ Wed May 11, 2011 9:50 pm ]
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^^^ Totally agree!
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