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| Author: | JOHNNYBOY29 [ Mon May 09, 2011 9:28 pm ] |
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In regards to attendants and workers - how do we open them? There is this girl at Costa who I find hot. She is very very shy but damn beautiful. Doesnt speak to much English. I saw her today she served me, no one in the queue and my mind went blank. A few minutes later she was on her break sitting down eating on her own near me... I did nothing as my mind went blank as to what to say How would i open her? I think it would have to be something simple and flirty (although it could go over her head due to the English) She just seems very shy and not to confident. |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Mon May 09, 2011 11:49 pm ] |
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Here is a coffee shop gambit that I have perfected over the past month. It has been a high yield routine and I am still working on it. Sit down next to her and... have a 10 sec awkward silence You: So I think this is going pretty well... Her: response You: I mean our date... Her: I was just sitting here. You: Yes! and now you are on a date!!! how cool is that. Her: giggles and all that You: Actually this is really just a practice date. I have a date later this week and I needed a refresher. I usually don't do coffee dates. Do you have any tips? Hopefully at this point she has bit and you can just start baiting her to invest. When you hit a point when she is really selling herself to you then you can just ask a pointed qualifier like "I think my real date is going to have a hard time living up to this practice date. What is it about you that is keeping me so interested?". If she answers then give her a statement of interest and either #close or, if plausible, begin 3d escalation. |
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| Author: | JOHNNYBOY29 [ Tue May 10, 2011 9:21 am ] |
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Thanks Jits. Seems ok to do. The thing is she is a girl (most probably new to this country) and could feel threatened by me just turning up on her table. I know she is working today as I walked past the place ont he way to work. I will get my afternoon coffee and may chat to her then (Hopefully). |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Tue May 10, 2011 11:03 pm ] |
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A lot of times shy people are very impressed by people who are not shy. It leaves them in awe. Just make sure you don't misread a lack of IOIs for disinterest. Sometimes shy girls are extremely hard to read. Do NOT try to flip any preselection switches... learned that one the hard way on a herd. |
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| Author: | AGDubz [ Wed May 11, 2011 4:44 am ] |
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Hot babe sitting alone = "Hey, I'm gonna sit with you so you dont look like a loser. You can thank me later |
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