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Author:  Century100 [ Fri May 06, 2011 12:02 pm ]
Post subject:  If you smile at a girl and she smiles back

Say im walking down the street - no wait

say im STRUTTING down the street. Feeling pretty impressive because im wearing my new jacket and feel awesome. Ive also had a good week in terms of female attention so im flush. YEAH! thats more like it.

I then make eye contact with an attractive woman, and smile very confidently.
"Oh, hellooo there ;)" (I dont actually say this. I think it in my head)
She smiles back, not just a forced kind smile but an actual real smile/giggle.

Assuming this were to happen to me tomorrow, would it be likely that if i was to stop her and say "Hi", and make some conversation she would respond very positively?
I think the answer would be yes, she would respond positively because she already sees you as potentially fun.

But would it be appropriate to get a girls number just by doing this?
Would it work? Ya know, smiling, and if she responds well opening and going for n-close if the conversation goes well?

Honestly i have no idea if this has an obvious "YES!" or "NO!" or "What the hell? Need more info" kind of answer, its just ive never considered picking up during the day like this, and am wondering if it would work.

The way i see it, i dont see why it wouldnt work. But what are your opinions?

Author:  Imar [ Fri May 06, 2011 12:04 pm ]
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Just have a chat, show your charms, ask her number. She'll give it to you 9/10 times.

Author:  Spike007 [ Fri May 06, 2011 1:44 pm ]
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I like the attitude! :P

If it's a GENIUNE smile, go for it. Don't ask directly her number but I'll try to use a question to open, then from that do your game.

But the answer is a big YES do it. For me if a girl smile me back I don't see why I would not open. It doesn't mean it's a 100% shot but to open it's a door opened.

Author:  andd95 [ Fri May 06, 2011 5:19 pm ]
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i believe it has been discussed on the board before but body language/behavior IS a non verbal way to flirt with a girl. I personally believe that it is a great way to gauge interest in a girl you may want to approach or randomly "flirt" with girls. I tend to look around the room and if I see any girl looking at me I give them the sly smile and see how they respond.

Author:  Century100 [ Sat May 07, 2011 12:11 pm ]
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alright, thanks heaps guys :)

There is one problem though...it may be me overthinking things but:
Girls often see me as adorable (im not bragging here, lets me clear. Its not good.)
because of the way I look, and my smile is described as really uplifting rather than "hot".

Although I think this may make it easier for me to make friends with girls, because i look genuine and non-threatening, i think it also makes it a lot harder to appeal sexually.

SO, im thinking...maybe in my particular case, based on my "cute charm" as opposed to "hot alpha male-ness", the smiles back arent actually anything other than
"aww, he looks sweet"

So how do I know that the only reason im getting smiles back is because I look cute, and not because I show confidence/being fun?


These thoughts came to me on my way home tonight, when i smiled at this very unnaproachable looking girl (she was really hot though), and she looked at me for a second then flashed a really genuine smile back with abit of a giggle. This girl was older than me (25 maybe, im 18), and then said later "youre so cute"
which didnt upset me at the time, but shattered my confidence in a way. Is this how all girls view me?

I felt as though if i were to game her, she would reject me the moment i escalated because im already viewed as "cute" not "sexual".

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