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What do you think of how I talked to my old oneitis?
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Author:  Chris2k10 [ Mon May 02, 2011 8:42 pm ]
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So when I was a freshman in HS, I had a crush on a sophomore girl who seemed to like me back but I was too shy back then and just terrible lol. So on Valentine's Day in French I gave her a bouqet of 4 white roses with 1 red rose in the middle and a cute card with a cute thing I wrote in it. Anyways, at the end of the year we ignored each other and all. Now I'm a senior and she's a college freshman so I caught up with her on facebook like so:

By the way, she's been sort of bitchy ever since I knew her. Last Valentine's Day I wrote on her wall, "Did you ever get 5 roses for Valentine's Day?" to "allude" to the past. And she deleted it. Though I avoid bringing up the fact that she deleted it, it would look like I took it personally.

me: yo i remeber you from french, just wanted to say hi.
her: hey, how are you?.
me: lots goin on..just presented senior exit today, hella long Ll (it's how i shorten lol) hbu.
her: what's senior exit?i'm good, studying for finals.
me: senior exit project, presentation. and ace those finals.
her: haha i'll do my best
me: hey nice pic, you got a lot prettier. glad i gave someone like you those roses.
her: lol that was sort of a backhanded insult, but thank you.
me: yw. i remember you blushing (trying to create some sexual tension here) and all lol. and it's not really an insult. just sayin you went from a 10 to a 15 ;).
her: aww thank you :).
me: ye, np. well i gotta au revoir (means bye in french here, made it sound funny).. pleasure talking to you Lauren :).
her: she was about to say something right after because she began typing and I went offline before she sent it. hehehe...
Author:  recovered [ Mon May 02, 2011 10:34 pm ]
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You put her too high on the pedestal when she mentioned you insulted her. You should of ignored it carried onto the conversation, because you told her she went from a 10 to a 15, and depending how gorgeous she is, of course she gets that all the time, hence why she said "aww thank you" like any other sarcastic hb would say after being told they're hot. Now she's put you onto her list of other guys who follow her around and will do anything for her, I suggest you make yourself different, a softer neg would've helped a lot. You could of even said the "I'm sure you look pretty without makeup" neg and see how'd that do lol. You're still in the early stages, just don't come off being too clingy, especially since you kept mentioning about the roses, if she already deleted the original off her wall, she's already acknowledged you.
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Mon May 02, 2011 11:27 pm ]
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Ahhh, I knew someone would think I'm in my beginning stages. There is something 99% of all the guys on this forum can't see. And that is that there is a fine line between being nice and being adorable. I can perfectly see where you're coming from. Don't worry, I've been doing PU for a year. I've read many books, have had countless experiences, I've heard about everything there is really.

What I'm doing now, is basically what you see a guy doing in a romance movie where he appears that he's just an AFC, but in the end gets the girl.

You cannot be charming/adorable without appearing to be an AFC. It's confidence and being genuine that separates the two.
Author:  PUA Hopeful [ Mon May 02, 2011 11:30 pm ]
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Wow man, if that works for you then hats off, i personally see that convo and think it is cringeworthy, what the hell were the roses.... bit AFC, like the above said, when you went "10 to a 15" first of all your letting her you score her out of apparently 10, which i would say is not good, if i was going to score her, AND tell her, should of pick a way lower number. "You went from a 3 to 6" whether this would work im not sure, but your still paying her the little compliment with the prettier comment, yet not putting her on a pedestol.

I'm new i know, and i'm not a "PUA" but this shit works for me, being cocky funny, it might fail with others though.

Good luck
Author:  PUA Hopeful [ Mon May 02, 2011 11:32 pm ]
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What I'm doing now, is basically what you see a guy doing in a romance movie where he appears that he's just an AFC, but in the end gets the girl.
Were not in a movie pal.
Author:  recovered [ Mon May 02, 2011 11:45 pm ]
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What I'm doing now, is basically what you see a guy doing in a romance movie where he appears that he's just an AFC, but in the end gets the girl.
Were not in a movie pal.
+1 As said, we're not in a movie, that shit's too AFC man, and that's why AFC's exist, because of those movies. lol
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Mon May 02, 2011 11:55 pm ]
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Movies are a way of making dreams artifically happen, it's a way for us to see miracles and dreams happen easily. The thing is that dreams and miracles exist in reality as well, they're just a lot harder and scarce. If all of us were only focused on reality, we'd all be robots.

Now as for cocky and funny..it works.."in a way." By that I mean that it improves a girl's communication with you which is hopefully supposed to lead to attraction. She finds you exciting to talk to, so she talks to you more often..giving you more chances to attract. But attraction in it's raw form, does not come as a result of being cocky and funny. It comes from wanting her as a sexual being.
Author:  recovered [ Mon May 02, 2011 11:57 pm ]
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You can always ask her if she'd like to come back to your place and watch The Notebook and A Walk to Remember, see what she says then. :P
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Tue May 03, 2011 12:01 am ]
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What I'm doing now, is basically what you see a guy doing in a romance movie where he appears that he's just an AFC, but in the end gets the girl.
Were not in a movie pal.
+1 As said, we're not in a movie, that shit's too AFC man, and that's why AFC's exist, because of those movies. lol
Average...frustrated...chump. You don't know what AFC means and yet I can tell you're an AFC already. You can be the best negger in the world, the most alpha of all males, and you can STILL be an AFC. The tactics that you learned about, are a mask to not being AFC. The secret is to act like one of those "AFC" guys, but in a seductive way without taking anything personally. I pull off loads of AFC-like moves, but what makes it work is that girls can see I have the confidence and they get that feeling that I know exactly what I want from them. It's that state of being AFC-like, but with that daring, player attitude.
Author:  recovered [ Tue May 03, 2011 12:05 am ]
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I'm an AFC?
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Tue May 03, 2011 12:10 am ]
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Trust me man, I was just like you. Learned about negging, learned about peacocking, learned cocky & funny and then boom, I thought I was no longer AFC. What AFC really means is not that you are sweet to a girl and compliment her. AFC is not seeing a girl as a sexual being and taking the failures personally. When an AFC gets rejected, he begins to talk about the rejection with the girl. When someone like me gets rejected, I just smile and move closer. And yes, it very much so appears that I'm clingy for doing that. But what the girl thinks is, "Damn, I can't shake this guy. He knows what he wants, I'm starting to like him."

And if the rejection gets worse, I combat it with honesty (You're just pretty so I had a picture of you being underneath me in my mind). What can she say after that? NOTHING. I don't come up with some sarcastic/cocky & funny line. That's like trying to maintain sexual tension while breaking rapport.
Author:  PUA Hopeful [ Tue May 03, 2011 12:12 am ]
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no chris, i can assure you i'm not an AFC, you dont base your game on just cocky funny, you can bring up sexual subjects, just a simple wink can work, that shows that your interested, you make HER work for it
Author:  PUA Hopeful [ Tue May 03, 2011 12:14 am ]
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When someone like me gets rejected, I just smile and move closer. And yes, it very much so appears that I'm clingy for doing that. But what the girl thinks is, "Damn, I can't shake this guy. He knows what he wants, I'm starting to like him."
Or she thinks "i better phone the poilce and get a restraining order out on this stalker" whatever works for you.
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Tue May 03, 2011 12:15 am ]
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no chris, i can assure you i'm not an AFC, you dont base your game on just cocky funny, you can bring up sexual subjects, just a simple wink can work, that shows that your interested, you make HER work for it
I was referring to Recovered.
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Tue May 03, 2011 12:18 am ]
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When someone like me gets rejected, I just smile and move closer. And yes, it very much so appears that I'm clingy for doing that. But what the girl thinks is, "Damn, I can't shake this guy. He knows what he wants, I'm starting to like him."
Or she thinks "i better phone the poilce and get a restraining order out on this stalker" whatever works for you.
Trust me, you can be like that and make it work as long as you're seductive. I get called a creep/stalker so many times..I just counter it with something adorable and the girl can't help but only to like me more.
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