If you're fingering her, youre probably not pleasing her very much. She should be begging for you to pipe her.

The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose

nope. this chick just gets off on giving you blue balls. she likes having her little puppy with his little leash on.

you need her to see other girls giving you sexual attention.

Any other options? I'm committed to this relationship, and I just want her to put out more.

you could try begging

Lol I meant a non-smartass answer dude. This girl is awesome. And she has put out great in the past. It's just now for some reason. I want to shift the power of when we have sex to me.

well, at least you have a sense of humor.

here is the thing:

you are pursuing her, right? how is that working for you? not very good, right?

and the harder you pursue, the worse it gets, right?

so you have two options, because pursuing her is NOT working.

option 1: be celibate, don't have sex
option 2: make her pursue you

i'm willing to bet you are going to vote for option 2 (just a hunch)

so, the question then becomes "how do i make a female pursue me sexually?"

you have to:
- be seen as a sexual being
- seem unavailable

women want what they can't have!
and, they also want what other women have!

so, if you get sexual attention from other females (i mean attention, not actual sex). just flirting, texting, joking, doing things with groups of friends that include females, talking/chatting with female coworkers, etc.

when she sees them smiling at you, looking at your ass when you walk away, the way you make them squirm in your presence, she is going to have two thoughts:

- HE IS A VERY SEXUAL BEING
- HE IS MINE!!!!!!
- HE IS NOT YOURS!!!!!!!!
- FUCK ME NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!