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Author:  meisdi90 [ Sun May 01, 2011 9:44 am ]
Post subject:  Relationship with girl from same social circle
Hey guys!

There's a girl in my study group, with whom I've been spending most of the time dancing and talking at some parties and I can tell she's into me. Until now I've been treating her just like a group friend, but we've been together (along with other grp ppl) on a trip just few days ago and I started to think about her more like a potential girlfriend. She's not really my type, but that even makes this 'feeling' about her more real I guess. Well, the problem is even if we both would like to make this working, we see each other 2/3 days a week on regular basis. Shit thing about that is when something fucks up, and sooner or later it's going to happen (Well I'm sure we both aren't looking for wives and husbands, we're 20) we are still going to see each other and it can fuck up group SPAM (really great people) and messing something up is what the last thing I want to. I think despite that I'm still going to go for it. Any advices?
Author:  Closer21 [ Sun May 01, 2011 9:57 am ]
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I'll just give you my two cents worth seeing as I'm in a similar situation. Me and my girlfriend are both from the same social circle. That was how we met each other actually. And if anything, it has brought the group even closer, not fucking up any SPAM.
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we see each other 2/3 days a week on regular basis.
That's enough. Trust me, you don't want to see her 7 days a week. Your relationship won't last a month. Seeing her 2/3 days a week helps heighten her emotions of missing you, and will definitely help things get intimate if you know what i mean.
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Shit thing about that is when something fucks up, and sooner or later it's going to happen
With this attitude, it will. You even mentioned that she's not your type. How then do you expect this relationship to go anywhere? That wasn't an attack on you by the way, but if you're looking for a LTR, you gotta stop thinking about things fucking up. So to summarise, go for it :D
Author:  notsosmooth [ Sun May 01, 2011 10:00 am ]
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From personal experience, go for it! Nevermind people saying that its hard and it sucks seeing your girl 24/7, might ruin the SPAM, yada yada. If you want to make it work, IT WILL.

I'd say its cool and it can even build this little sexual tension between you and her in class and when its unleashed its awesome.
Author:  meisdi90 [ Sun May 01, 2011 10:28 am ]
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Thanks for your responses guys! When I mentioned she's not my type, I meant to say that I fancy her & think she's cute n pretty despite she's short blonde, when I normally like tall brunettes ;)
Author:  Streetfighter [ Sun May 01, 2011 1:49 pm ]
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In the EXACT same situation, though how do you plan on moving the situation forward? kissing her at a party? asking her over to hang and escelating the flirtyness ect?
Author:  meisdi90 [ Sun May 01, 2011 3:48 pm ]
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Well, I've spend loads of time with her last few days and now it's just matter of time for us to be together. I haven't kissed her already, but she can definitely tell I'm into her too since I've been biting and kissing her neck (she totally enjoyed it and didn't want me to stop). Going to kiss her next time I see her in non-studying situation (however kissing her unexpectedly in elevator or something would work too I guess ;)). I just needed to realize she's someone whom with I could be. I believe I'm in little bit more comfortable situation, because we've talked about possible relationship, of course not literally, but we both get the idea. So - matter of time. Good luck out there mate, hope I will be able to share how it went in next couple days!
Author:  Streetfighter [ Mon May 02, 2011 2:59 pm ]
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haha kissing and biting on the neck? seems you and this girl are ahead of me and my problem!
but she does always ask me to come to night clubs / parties with her which is an IOI right?

please do keep me updated!!
Author:  meisdi90 [ Tue May 03, 2011 8:15 am ]
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As you wish! :)

Together with few other ppl we went on a gig in her town. It sucked, but that doesn't really matter, as we all drink some beers and basically have a great time despite the weather (it was pretty cold). As night moved on some girl had to go home (I was supposed to leave about 1hr after her, but well.. didn't ;)), and then we were left with us three - me, some guy and her. We've stayed like this for couple hours, and then this guy had to go home. I made myself sure earlier that someone's gonna have to stay with me since I'm like first time in this city and on and on, so.. she stayed ;) It was getting REALLY cold, even before this guy left we were sitting really close, holding hands under my jacket, but then we've decided we need to find some warm place. I wanted to go for some party as we always have a splendid time dancing together, but she said there aren't any. So. We started walking through the city and we found some staircase with elevator. We get inside and sat there for 2-3hours talking all the time. I knew I would have to go home anytime now, so I've decided to move this on. Again started to kiss & bite both her neck sides and ears. She loved it ;) Again. And then, which happened really quick and I didn't really planned it I've started kissing her neck higher and higher, and then went for her lips. Now, funny one ;d She said something like 'Noo, oh my god', and I've said something like 'Shut up' and kissed her again, this time she kissed back. After few whiles of kissing we've started to talk about us, about our study grp, how people are going to react, but well we don't give a fuck right now about that I guess.

Mission accomplished!

Oh, and:
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however kissing her unexpectedly in elevator
Hahaha, well, that wasn't unexpected, but, still, elevator! I must be some kind of a prophet! :D

Inviting you for parties is definitely IOI, you just need to take a leap. Get close with her, smell her, tell her you really want to bite her neck right now, go for it, then kiss her lips. Worked for me. Why wouldn't it work for you? :)
Good luck with yours mate, if you like her - go for it, you've got one life, use it!

*Having sex with her in that elevator would be so fucking cool (anyone could get in anytime), but she was really glad I didn't kiss her before as she likes to keep it slower so I guess I could mess it if I went for it.
Author:  Streetfighter [ Tue May 03, 2011 2:35 pm ]
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AHAHA CHAMPION !!! Hi Five!

must have started early in the evening for all that time to have passed!?

loved the shuttup and kiss me xD

are u dating now? or just seeing how it goes? nice work man! haha

You've inspired me to go for it thursday night :D

ill keep you posted :)
Author:  meisdi90 [ Tue May 03, 2011 4:37 pm ]
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Yeah, we were together for 6-7hours easily :wink: Sure, as I mentioned before, we've talked about this, and definitely going to date. Keeping my fingers crossed on thursday and can't wait for your raport! Have fun! :D
Author:  meisdi90 [ Sat May 07, 2011 5:50 am ]
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Any progress? How did it go? As for me, we're definitely in a relationship now and it's awesome so far! :)
Author:  Streetfighter [ Mon May 09, 2011 2:07 pm ]
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Ok not the best.
been hanging out a bit and talking more this weekend than usual, but havent clicked 100% yet :S

for fear of getting oneitus (in case i blow it) im trying to organise to hang with other girls too haha

oh yeah she always drops hints that she has other guys she dates or whatever, but i think its just a shit test and im fair sure i pass easily.
im going to try build heaps of sexual tension tomorrow night or saturday night and then kiss her at the end of the night . . . GAH! lol

nice work man :D congradz
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