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| Author: | Red_PUA [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 6:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to pick up a PUA? |
Ok, so I have just registered on this site but that does not mean I am not a PUA. I am, although I have just recently become conscious to this fact. (Nice surprise actually). First off I should probably explain that I am a female and although this seems like a PUA forum for men I have not come across any for women - so I hope I will be welcome. Question: How do you pick up a PUA? I am curious as to how to approach this as can I actually bring anything new to the table? I am aware that the target in question is constantly gaming me as well and has been for years! We closed a number of times several years ago and I feel like a round 2. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions? I really need to up my game here - all help is welcome. |
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| Author: | KayB [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 6:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to pick up a PUA? |
Quote: I am a female
Show up naked and bring beer.
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| Author: | Red_PUA [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 6:57 pm ] |
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Haha KayB, While that is great advice, subtlety and secrecy are a must! |
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| Author: | Txacoli [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 7:17 pm ] |
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What do you want with him? Just a hook-up, a relationship, being FBs? If he's gaming you, a hook-up should be really easy, FBs as well. If you want a relationship, you'll probably need to spark his interest in a different way if he's a player. Some push-pull for sure. |
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| Author: | Keksman [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 8:11 pm ] |
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I've recently noticed myself getting played by a couple of girls--pretty sure they're doing it subconsciously, which makes it worse. Normally, nothing rattles me, and women are out of my head the minute they're out the door. And although I realize what's happening, I still long for these women. So here's what hooked me: 1) Being unavailable. Job, busy lifestyle, travel, etc. 2) Not showing their cards. Being a bit cold at times, push-pull, not ever let me know I have them wrapped up. 3) Making me take the initiative. Goes along with 2), but let him come after you. When he does, reward him for it though. 4) Great sex. Many women are too passive, it gets old. It's a team sport. I hate to admit that the run-of-the-mill tricks seem to be working on me. Most women can't pull it off, but these few somehow can. That's the best I can give you from my experience. |
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| Author: | marquito42 [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 9:01 pm ] |
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feels a bit weird to give advice to a women. what Keksman said is totally right. I would just add something. You should give him IoI's but keep him at a distance. Make him think that there could be something but do not let it happen that easy. But to quote Mystery; "You can only choose from the guys that first chose you." So if you would actually come up and talk to me I would be much less interested in you than if it was the other way round. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Thu Apr 28, 2011 3:52 am ] |
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The masculine essense is about aggressiveness while the feminine is about passiveness. So, while the masculine strategies like those within the pickup community involve proactive action, feminine strategies involve more passive strategies like looking pretty (cosmetics and specialized exercise) in order to elicit the masculine nature of aggressiveness from worthy men, and being receptive to flirting while at the same time screening strategically for certain risks so that courtship flows naturally once it begins. This type of female "pickup" is already taught everywhere in society. I can't specifically cite too many examples since I haven't really looked into it, but doesn't Cosmo magazine and other sources like that teach you how to use makeup and exercises to tone your ass, etc.? As for the screening part, these lessons seem to be also taught socially from woman to woman, or rather, society to women. Vin DiCarlo's Objection Game addresses what women primarily screen for in terms of the risks of sex. These include factors like predicting if the guy will get clingy, if he will just use you and throw you away, if he'll brag about fucking you and destroy your reputation, etc. |
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