| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Girl addicted to me? https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=90526 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | GoldDust [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 5:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl addicted to me? |
You know I thought I would love to have a girl chasing me and that I am always on her mind but man this is ridiculous now. We almost had sex last week but it was more of a really hot make out session with tops off lol She texts me everyday and tries to call. Pokes me on facebook, messages me, starts a chat oh my god haha I told myself today that I've been giving her too much of my time so i thought i would ignore her for today. she just text me now saying "GoldDust!" (But my real name instead of that lol) I want to keep her interested but i think it's too much. any ideas guys? |
|
| Author: | Red_PUA [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Well that is one of the hazards of being a great PUA. In my opinion you have two options; Firstly, her obsession and sexual arousal will just get worse and worse until you sleep with her. That is a guarantee. So sleep with her. Secondly, you should try and make yourself appear unavailable to her, by either hints suggestions, or bare faced lies. That way you will retain the sexual tension without her expecting anything other than sex. Hope this helps 
|
|
| Author: | GoldDust [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 7:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
what hint sugguestions would you use to make yourself appear unavailable? all i'm doing at the moment is avoiding contact in every possible way. now she is wondering where i am lol |
|
| Author: | Red_PUA [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 7:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
There are two common ways to render yourself as unavailable to women. Mentally and/or Physically. Mentally; Through little comments you can hint that you have been hurt by women in the past and don't want to get into anything serious. You could directly tell her that you are still in love with an ex. Basically come across as either lost, hurt or confused. Physically unavailable; Tell her you have a girlfriend/ seeing someone else Tell her you are Gay Those are the most common and obvious ways. |
|
| Author: | GoldDust [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I don't want to get rid of her completely. Just ways to show that I'm a busy guy and that I'm not always there to talk. Subtle cues without totally avoiding her maybe |
|
| Author: | Carmo [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 9:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Lot of guys thing that this is what they want until they actually get it. There is nothing attractive about a girl who is obcessed with you. When I started being on the receiving end of this type of behavior is when i literally became uncapable of being needy myself. |
|
| Author: | GoldDust [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 9:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: Lot of guys thing that this is what they want until they actually get it. There is nothing attractive about a girl who is obcessed with you. When I started being on the receiving end of this type of behavior is when i literally became uncapable of being needy myself.
I know what you mean bro. We crave a girls attention so much but when we get it, and too much of it, we become none needy. It's almost a slight turn off for me.I now understand why girls don't like clingy guys. |
|
| Author: | Carmo [ Thu Apr 28, 2011 4:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
Agreed man. Alot of guys probably got into pick up because they were hurt or cheated on by a girl they cared for. They go and think that if they get a needy girl who is all about them that that they will be happy but not so much as we come to find out. I just got out of a relationship with a girl who was extremley needy, i mean super crazy needy! It was such an attraction killer i didn't even want to sleep with her quite often until i had to end it. I think a nice balance between feminine tenderness and independent self reliance is a nice starting point. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|