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Author:  Rimbow [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 12:35 am ]
Post subject:  Limitations of the city?? help needed from experienced guys
Hey,

I have now overcome most problems approaching girls at night. I'm not really afraid anymore. I live in a fairly big city: Copenhagen (Denmark):

The population in the city is half a million (539,542).

My main problem about approaching a lot is (and you know a bit "aggresively") is, that I don't know if the city is simply BIG enough. Will I run into the same girls twice, will I get reputation of any kind?

This could make hindrance to my motivation.

Any guys with experience approaching a lot in only fairly big cities?

Louve :)
Author:  Keksman [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 1:22 am ]
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Don't worry about it. Even if you are pretty clear about what you want, a small city can work for you. My buddy and I have been hitting my current city (similar size to yours but a lot fewer decent venues) pretty hard for a number of months. Instead of a "bad reputation" we get a ton of social proof. A few weeks back, I got chatted up by a few girls, and they only became more interested once girl after girl came by to say hi. Just make sure you stick to the "leave her better than you found her" rule. Girls will see that you're popular, desired, and not a dick.
Author:  Rimbow [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 12:53 pm ]
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Great Keksman:) that really helps. Copenhagen isn't gonna be my excuse to do a lot of sarging then;)
Author:  marquito42 [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 2:01 pm ]
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I was thinking about the same problem too.
The city I normally go out is a lot smaller than Copenhagen.
The population is about 140k. but actually I already know a lot of people and I'm sure that there would be gossip when I make out with girls but actually my conclusion is that the gossip could support my game.
You know, if there's gossip about you girls might wanna find out what's so special about you and even come up to you.
On the other hand, building a real relationship with a girl could get harder.
Author:  Rimbow [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 6:31 pm ]
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Yeah, marquito42. But if you suck with every woman you meet, your reputation probably will not be so good then.

I like to experiment with girls (you know, using the slogan "get blown, or get blown out"). So my maine concern is still wether these "bad cases" :D will have to much of an effect.

I guess the relationship thing could be true as well.
Author:  marquito42 [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 8:54 pm ]
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blown or blown out :D nice

I am pretty subtle I think. I don't really come across as a total player sleepin with a different girl every weekend so there won't really be any reputation problems I guess. I am totally addicted to Gambler's methods. I actually just started this whole Pick-Up thing and the only thing that really changed is that I am aware of what I am doing. My purpose never was to pick up girls when I was in a club, I was just hanging out and having fun with my friends and that's the way I am playing it.
Genuine natural game.
Last night I used a few routines just to try them out. And I wasn't really content with it. It felt like letting a program roll and watching it like a spectator.

My point is that if I keep being natural, just wanting to have fun and not letting anyone know that I'm gaming, there won't be rumors about me being a player.
The only person I would ever talk with about my Pick-Ups is my best friend and maybe my best female friend, because I know that they would never spread any gossip around about me.
If anyone else would ask me; "Ey buddy have you slept with the girl you have been making out with in the club the other night?"
I would just deny it or say something like; "A gentleman keeps silence and enjoys." (Which is a pretty common phrase here in Germany)

- The bigger the city, the bigger player you can be -
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