DeeDubStyle: Haven't thought of it like that, but I agree for the most part.
new2game: Id say the second one is more like my situation. I got put in the friend zone most likely.
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| Author: | Pagey [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 4:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is she trying to make me jealous, or am I just in denial? |
Hi guys, So theres this chick I've been talking to.Ive been giving her bass lessons. I'm at rock star level and she's a genius so we made nice progress. there's been a lot of IOIs between us. I definitely like her (and she likes me most def), but I'm pretty sure I waited too long to ask her out. bottom line: suddenly she gets a bf xo *slap in the face* Yeah so, I kinda hoped she would make the first move, but now I'm thinking I should've! Anyway soon as I found out I decided it'd be best to stop lessons for a couple seasons (a well deserved break). We ended on a good note , but I am definitely not gonna be seeing her again soon...cus you know... xo *slap in the face* Her loss! I'm tempted to believe that she is effectively trying to make me jealous. I say "effectively" because it has been effective; however just cus I'm jealous doesn't mean it was her intent. A couple of questions please. 1.How can I test to see whether she is trying to make me jealous? 2. If I were to make any sort of move toward the goal of....ummm lets say a kiss?? what should be my move? in pua terms, how to land a kiss close while she has a bf? |
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| Author: | DeeDubStyle [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 5:47 am ] |
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I doubt she is trying to make you jealous. You were supposed to make the first move, but since you didn't she probably thinks it's her fault. If she has a boyfriend, I would not interfere. |
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| Author: | new2game [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 6:42 am ] |
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When you asked her out, did she say she had a boyfriends straight away? Or did she laugh, giggle, enjoy the conversation THEN tell you she has a boyfriend? Following the PUA "Sasha's" teachings, if you started talking to her and she threw up the BF block straight away. Guess what buddy, she doesn't have a B.F. However if you are talking to her, things are going great, THEN she says she has a B.F. Odds are she truly does. What happened in your case? |
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| Author: | Pagey [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 8:12 am ] |
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DeeDubStyle: Haven't thought of it like that, but I agree for the most part. new2game: Id say the second one is more like my situation. I got put in the friend zone most likely.
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| Author: | Infamous110 [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:11 am ] |
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IOIs aren't enough if you've spent hours hanging out. If she's attractive she will have plenty of guys willing to escalate things and an IOI does not a LTR make. Now you have a new relationship which is probably exciting her but at the same time easier overthrown. Cutting her off won't help right now because she won't even think about you. |
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| Author: | Pagey [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 6:36 pm ] |
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Dang Infamous110, you really think so? |
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