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Author:  fearless123 [ Sun Apr 24, 2011 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Was I a jerk
I met a girl and she messaged me suggesting a date. But the message had some spelling errors and she said she was drinking. So I made a joke that if it wasn't for the spelling mistakes I would never of knwn she was drinking Haha. I went on to confirm the date.I was trying to be playful but she hasn't go back to me and Im afraid I insulted her. If I send another message should I tell hr I was just messing around? I know she's real smart that's why i said it
Author:  AGDubz [ Sun Apr 24, 2011 6:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Was I a jerk
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I met a girl and she messaged me suggesting a date. But the message had some spelling errors and she said she was drinking. So I made a joke that if it wasn't for the spelling mistakes I would never of knwn she was drinking Haha. I went on to confirm the date.I was trying to be playful but she hasn't go back to me and Im afraid I insulted her. If I send another message should I tell hr I was just messing around? I know she's real smart that's why i said it
You did nothing wrong from the looks of it. Its possible shes just embarrassed now.
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Sun Apr 24, 2011 6:50 pm ]
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This is exactly the what I've been talking about. See, we are concerned with, "What if I insulted her?" But yet girls are never concerned with, "What if I insulted him."! Now that's some bullshit.

And an insult doesn't mean shit, it all depends on the person's self-esteem as well. You got some really dumb girls out there who take everything personally, even compliments. So I would not give a fuck if I've insulted any girl unless I knew that my direct intention was to insult her. If I say something that's not intended to be an insult and the girl takes it personally, I just back up my response with honesty. "Oh you assumed what my age was, that's very insulting." Me: "I just wanted to figure out when you graduated." And if she keeps bitching about it, it always ends with me saying, "It was a pleasure talking to you." See? No need to get all mad over someone's stupidity, keep it honest and nice and move on. "I am a free being. I say what I want, assume what I want, and think what I want." When you're like that, then the girl knows she can't break you. She hates that, but at the same time she likes it. Two-faced, I'm tellin ya.
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