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| Author: | Sixpounder [ Sun Apr 24, 2011 5:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Social Proof Works |
This may seem pretty banal to most of you guys but I just wanted to share my experience of this last night. Usually, I enter a club and hit the bar straight away, I might go and dance for a bit if I like the song but usually I stay in the same spot and wait for people I know to come and say hi to me, I only really move off if I spot a girl that I want. Last night, I went in and straight away started a circuit, seeking out people I knew and greeting them, a quick hug and some small talk before I moved off to greet the next friend (I've gotten to know pretty much all of the regulars over the past few months). Only after I'd said hello to everyone did I finally go to the bar and do a couple of shots with one of my female friends (trying to show that I was pre-selected). It made a huge difference to women's receptivity toward me, every girl I approached was practically hanging on my every word, which boosted my confidence a ton and it sort of snowballed from there. I got approached repeatedly (usually I get 2 or 3 in a night but they were practically waiting in line for me last night) and one girl even went as far as to blurt out "no, I fancy you!" and then look terribly embarrassed when I was teasing her about being in to one of her friends (she texted me this morning apologizing for saying it followed by: "not that it's not true"). I'm very fussy so I didn't actually want anything from any of the girls in the club but I met a metric fuck ton of women and I figure it's always useful to know women! |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Sun Apr 24, 2011 7:10 pm ] |
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Because women are superficial, sly, two-faced beings. When you got huge social proof, they all flock around you like dumb geese. When you got no social proof and try to kindly interact with the target amongst all their friends, you get shot down. Life is unfair, gaming is unfair. It's just the way it is so I'd say that the first step for 99% of all guys out there is to just not give a shit because they take things personally anyways. What happened in your situation was a phenomenon that 60 years would call, "Physical god mode." It's when after you've dealt with your first normal rejection upon walking into a bar, you start to not give a shit anymore and you begin to unravel. First you get into social god mode where you don't have to worry about opening..approaching, or any of that crap anymore. It just works. Then to physical where now you're kinoing almost any girl you see without sayng a word. Although you haven't had to deal with rejection that night, you've had many experiences walking into a bar and trying to start to unravel yourself. You just felt comfortable with everything and to be honest, I don't think you were even really thinking that much about PUA techniques while you were in there. Bars..nightclubs..they're all a joke where you got all these women who have spent 4 hours grooming themselves for YOU (that's the funny part) all to wait for you to hit on them so they can flick you off like a little insect. Don't even take these SPAM personally. |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Sun Apr 24, 2011 8:06 pm ] |
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It's not a question of women being sly or superficial its something that happens at a very deep level in their minds to find a guy with social proof attractive. When you look at a smoking hot HB10 you don't just decide to feel attracted to her you just "are" It's the same to women with a socially proofed guy. The origins of the hardwiring are due to in prehistoric times a man who was socially proven by a lot of other woman was a very safe bet to invest your genes into (think of it as a comprehensive review of the goods/man) by her peers. So nature made through a process of natural selection such such men very attractive to females. There are loads of ways to fake social proof till you actually have it and it's giving you a headstart before you even begin DHVing. |
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| Author: | The_Dark_Knight_London [ Mon Apr 25, 2011 12:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social Proof Works |
Quote: This may seem pretty banal to most of you guys but I just wanted to share my experience of this last night. Usually, I enter a club and hit the bar straight away, I might go and dance for a bit if I like the song but usually I stay in the same spot and wait for people I know to come and say hi to me, I only really move off if I spot a girl that I want.
Well done. This is what most advanced PUA coaches teach. Go out with the aim of having fun and being social and women will look at you in a more admiral light.
Last night, I went in and straight away started a circuit, seeking out people I knew and greeting them, a quick hug and some small talk before I moved off to greet the next friend (I've gotten to know pretty much all of the regulars over the past few months). Only after I'd said hello to everyone did I finally go to the bar and do a couple of shots with one of my female friends (trying to show that I was pre-selected). It made a huge difference to women's receptivity toward me, every girl I approached was practically hanging on my every word, which boosted my confidence a ton and it sort of snowballed from there. I got approached repeatedly (usually I get 2 or 3 in a night but they were practically waiting in line for me last night) and one girl even went as far as to blurt out "no, I fancy you!" and then look terribly embarrassed when I was teasing her about being in to one of her friends (she texted me this morning apologizing for saying it followed by: "not that it's not true"). I'm very fussy so I didn't actually want anything from any of the girls in the club but I met a metric fuck ton of women and I figure it's always useful to know women! |
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