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Author:  Uglybugly [ Wed Apr 20, 2011 12:30 am ]
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I am going to pimp up my facebook profile and I am looking for guidelines on how to do it. any advice?
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Wed Apr 20, 2011 12:40 am ]
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shirtless muscle flex pics
Author:  Hansel McDonald [ Wed Apr 20, 2011 1:57 am ]
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Pictures are BY FAR the most important component of your "pimped out profile." Without pictures, your profile is nothing. Think, "Pics or it didn't happen." Your pictures should clearly represent you (your face), and they should depict an active and interesting lifestyle.

Your status updates and interactions with other people (wall posts, picture comments, etc.) are critical components to your Facebook presence as well. They essentially "verify" your coolness. The more hot girls and "cool" guys there are writing on your wall and commenting your pictures, the better.

A lot of people stress out over their profile information, but when all is said and done, it isn't all that important. People seldom read it, and when they do, they don't take it seriously. After all, talk is cheap, and anyone can write anything. I'd throw in your favorite movies and activities, etc., just to spark some interest in the event that someone clicks the "Info" tab. Keep it short (no more than five things in each section), and bear in mind that certain movies and activities, etc. are more "attractive" than others.

There should be enough information on your profile to spark some interest, and inquire people to want to learn more about you. It should not describe your every quality in excruciating detail. Please, don't be one of those guys who puts his life story in the "About Me" section, and, for the love of God, don't drone on about your favorite "character traits" that you think girls will find attractive.

Once you establish a good "base" profile, you should be interacting with people, updating your statuses, and posting new pictures on a fairly regular basis.
Author:  CountRedRover [ Wed Apr 20, 2011 11:55 am ]
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Kryptonic's Social Proofing Facebook Guide
1)Add people. People like what everyone else likes; the popular guys have a lot of friends. So I would click on that “People You May Know” tab on facebook and add all of them! Till you’re around 1000 I’d say. Just add 10 people a day. Yes. it is friend whoring but when a girl sees you have 1000 friends, in her head she’ll be like “shit. He’s got a 1000 friends. there has gotta be something about this guy (ideally)” and even if those ppl you add write “Idk you!” etc on your wall, just write back “well that’s a shame, everyone else does,” or delete their comment.
2)Try to have over 100 pictures of yourself with friends having fun, go do karaoke/clubbing/etc. with your friends and bring your camera, make it a necessity to have on you. If your default pic is a pokemon picture, I shun you!
3)Like and comment your friends wall posts, it’s the eye for an eye idea. You like their post, they’l probably like yours later. Dont just sit and creep on them.
4)Search for DHV facebook posts on google, or on this forum ex: [link] There are tons of facebook posts you can use that are listed. But I try keeping my posts funny in general. For example like first line from a Keisha song “Wake up in the morning feeling like P Diddy”, ppl jump in and "like" and comment cuz the songs on the radio every 5min and sinks into their skull!! posts like these don’t really convey higher value but is noticed more then “going to mall” or something blatant like that.
5)FB chat with a few of your LJBF girls asking them:
You: “hey can you do me a favor? Can you write like something teasing on my wall like 'hey I miss you! Call me :)' or somethin like that? Im trying to make this one girl im talking too jealous, ha.”
They always agree to do this (unless they just got out of a relationship..or are in one lol)! And once you have at least 5 girls do this, few of those 1000 of girls you added will start writing on your wall and notice this! This is building social proof through FB.
Author:  Uglybugly [ Wed Apr 20, 2011 6:20 pm ]
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profile picture with girls kissing me on the check is gold. em I right?
Author:  Little Panda [ Wed Apr 20, 2011 8:46 pm ]
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Kryptonic's Social Proofing Facebook Guide
1)Add people. People like what everyone else likes; the popular guys have a lot of friends. So I would click on that “People You May Know” tab on facebook and add all of them! Till you’re around 1000 I’d say. Just add 10 people a day. Yes. it is friend whoring but when a girl sees you have 1000 friends, in her head she’ll be like “shit. He’s got a 1000 friends. there has gotta be something about this guy (ideally)” and even if those ppl you add write “Idk you!” etc on your wall, just write back “well that’s a shame, everyone else does,” or delete their comment.
2)Try to have over 100 pictures of yourself with friends having fun, go do karaoke/clubbing/etc. with your friends and bring your camera, make it a necessity to have on you. If your default pic is a pokemon picture, I shun you!
3)Like and comment your friends wall posts, it’s the eye for an eye idea. You like their post, they’l probably like yours later. Dont just sit and creep on them.
4)Search for DHV facebook posts on google, or on this forum ex: [link] There are tons of facebook posts you can use that are listed. But I try keeping my posts funny in general. For example like first line from a Keisha song “Wake up in the morning feeling like P Diddy”, ppl jump in and "like" and comment cuz the songs on the radio every 5min and sinks into their skull!! posts like these don’t really convey higher value but is noticed more then “going to mall” or something blatant like that.
5)FB chat with a few of your LJBF girls asking them:
You: “hey can you do me a favor? Can you write like something teasing on my wall like 'hey I miss you! Call me :)' or somethin like that? Im trying to make this one girl im talking too jealous, ha.”
They always agree to do this (unless they just got out of a relationship..or are in one lol)! And once you have at least 5 girls do this, few of those 1000 of girls you added will start writing on your wall and notice this! This is building social proof through FB.
Few points are valid, but in general . . . very lowlife.

Building social proof through Facebook is not something that should be your end goal.

My friend is extremely high value and popular in real life. When he writes on Facebook, he barely gets any 'likes' or comments about anything.

On the other hand, my 9 year old little brother that writes something silly such as 'justin bieber sucks!!' gets over 10 likes for every status that he writes.

Don't make it your priority to hunt for the high quantity of friends on Facebook. Don't make it your priority to make sure people 'like' and comment your statuses all the time. It's only gonna show that you sit around the computer all day, not having seen daylight in a few months, and ending up looking (and probably behaving) like Gollum.

That's not what a cool profile is all about. Search on youtube or google the way to pimp your Facebook. There are videos showing you how to make your profile picture ideal and awesome. There are videos showing how your profile in general will be awesome. Make it genuine and interesting. Quality over quantity.

Think about it. What does your 5000 friends and wallposts that say 'who r u' tell people about you?

In fact, who's going to believe you ACTUALLY have that many friends for real? And even if they believe it from the initial impression, your behavior and attitude in real life will show otherwise. And since real life is all that matters in the end - you're gonna end up with a bunch of girls looking down on you for doing the ^above shit in the first place.

Following the guide above will only make you reek of desperation and validity seek.
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profile picture with girls kissing me on the check is gold. em I right?
Your profile picture is something that you purposely put up for everyone to see.

Compare these two kinds of profile pictures:

* Guy that is welldressed, looking into the camera (alt. looking in a different direction) with a good quality image of the person in question and the environment around him.

* Guy at some random bar, taking a picture of himself when two girls are kissing him on the cheek.

Of all the pictures that you have - you choose to put up the picture of you with two girls kissing you on the cheek. You purposely put up THAT picture because you purposely wanted people to see THAT image of you.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing. I'm saying that people are aware of why you chose that picture to be used as your profile picture. They know what you want to show with it. They feel that you're trying to come off as high value and being pre-selected. They all know and feel what your goal is with that picture. Which is why it's not gonna work. At least not as effectively as you might have thought.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Wed Apr 20, 2011 10:04 pm ]
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Gollum.......lol
Author:  Uglybugly [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 3:07 am ]
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I found a fb profile of a guy that also posts on one of them sites where people post pictures of their body .. something like "hot or not" kind of same concept. anyway professional photographers are in some way considered high value on those sites.
this guy uses a picture of himself wielding a big ass camera and it seems to work. alot of girls writes flirty comments on his walls etc..

I understand that it should not be my main goal to be cool on facebook but I think that fb can be a good way to keep track of girls that I meet in real life and if I have good fb profile then it might make me look "high value"

btw I am drunk as a skunk right now and it is not gonna be better if I try to fix the grammar above ;p
Author:  Little Panda [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 10:20 am ]
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^Those girls flirt with him and like him because of the person he is in real life and not because of his profile on a social network website.
Author:  Uglybugly [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 2:28 pm ]
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yes. however don't you think that alot of girls might check you out on facebook if you kiss closed with her the night before? wouldn't a good profile help if she is trying to get a mental picture of who you are?

This is how I think about it. I understand that I can't close myself in and just sit on facebook and hope to get results that way. I just see facebook as a useful tool to interact with people I meet in real life.

but ofc.. I have to be a real person to.
Author:  Little Panda [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 2:46 pm ]
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^The way I do it is that I still keep those pictures in my profile. I just don't use them as my profile picture.

Because when girls are checking you out, they WILL look through your main pictures. They will see that those kinds of pictures exist and they will also see that you purposely chose NOT to put them as your profile picture. They see you hook up with girls. You know you hook up with girls. You just don't value it in such an egoistic way that you need to have one of those pictures as your official profile picture for the whole world to see.

But like I said, it's not a super baaad thing to still have it. Even super-PUA's like Vince Kelvin have it.

It was just my personal view of the matter
Author:  Salamander [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 3:11 pm ]
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Think about it. What does your 5000 friends and wallposts that say 'who r u' tell people about you?

In fact, who's going to believe you ACTUALLY have that many friends for real?
True, read about it: *edit URL doesn't work, google Dunbar's Number
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