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Author:  Champion90 [ Sun Apr 17, 2011 12:47 am ]
Post subject:  Openers At a Bus Stop Needed!

Yes.. I came up London 2 months ago.. I don't speak english perfectly but.. the point is that I travel on bus everyday and I see many pretty girls at bus stops


please openers list.

Author:  Kupid [ Sun Apr 17, 2011 9:47 am ]
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Try this one viewtopic.php?p=461696#461696 and if you do, please let me know how it went :D

Author:  zebraG [ Sun Apr 17, 2011 5:22 pm ]
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The ultimate non-confrontational opener (the one I usually use to gauge interest):
"Excuse me, is this the bus to X because I don't want to get it wrong and end up in Y."
Where X is the place you're going to and Y is somewhere rubbish.

My personal take on directness on public transport is that a girl can't 'escape' if you make her feel uncomfortable* and so you should start off with something which is not pick up material at all. If she responds favourably, then ramp it up. If the answer is mono-sylabic, say "thank-you" and leave it.

*say you mess up on the street, she can just walk away.

Author:  Chris2k10 [ Sun Apr 17, 2011 7:31 pm ]
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"Hey there, you're cute so I wanted to talk to you."

Stating your intentions and getting to the point is the best way to go. No need to come up with weird bullshit, the girl won't even know what you want.

Author:  zebraG [ Sun Apr 17, 2011 7:47 pm ]
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"Hey there, you're cute so I wanted to talk to you."

Stating your intentions and getting to the point is the best way to go. No need to come up with weird bullshit, the girl won't even know what you want.
What about if she doesn't want to talk to you? Do you have any idea how weird it is for someone to hit on you when there's no escape (either you're standing next to them at the stop or you're sitting next to them)? What about if they regularly see you at the stop?

This is probably the time when direct game is genuinely terrible; it is extremely selfish. I know girls who have changed their entire routine to avoid certain guys who try that sort of thing. They are genuinely scared of guys who try this.

Author:  Chris2k10 [ Sun Apr 17, 2011 10:41 pm ]
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Hitting on a girl is attractive, it's called being a man and not a pussy. And it's good that it's all weird when there's no escape, that means there's a lot of sexual tension which is perfect for seduction. And girls aren't scared of guys doing this, they just got guys like you scared.

There really isn't such thing as direct and indirect game. There's really one way to game and that's by being sexual, escalating..being direct. Attraction doesn't happen based on some opinion on a wild topic or directions to some bullshit place. It happens when there is sexual tension. If you are not sexual with a girl, then you are not seeing her as a sexual being, that's insulting her. You're basically just looking for good reactions from her if she approves of YOU as a person and not as one who can deliver pleasure. That's being extremely selfish.

Author:  zebraG [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 4:22 pm ]
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And it's good that it's all weird when there's no escape, that means there's a lot of sexual tension which is perfect for seduction.
Or rape
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And girls aren't scared of guys doing this, they just got guys like you scared.
I'm terribly sorry. Perhaps I misunderstood when my housemate was telling me how she's changed her routine to get to work to avoid a guy who was creepy as he hit on to her on a bus.

One of the main goals of the PUA is to leave the girl better than you found her. A lot of people forget this.

I'd be interested to hear the thoughts of some of the forum girls if anyone fancies pointing them them this way.

Author:  Sixpounder [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 5:32 pm ]
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I have to back up zebraG here, I don't know a single woman that appreciates a guy acting like that. If she's in a position where she doesn't think she can get away from you and you insist on acting in a sexual fashion, she's going to get creeped out and she's going to get worried... In the past I've even had a complete stranger say to me "excuse me but this guy won't leave me alone", she felt threatened by him.

Author:  ILXI [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 6:27 pm ]
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The best pickup line in the vast majority of situations (of course IMHO) but it's still the best.. As u approach her look at her, smile slightly and say " HI MY NAME IS (your name" Yea sounds stupid but God does it work.

Author:  Chris2k10 [ Tue Apr 19, 2011 6:50 pm ]
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Doesn't matter what women/girls say. They don't get creeped out by us, that's just a bullshit method to scare us away. Look, we never get creeped out by girls or call them creeps so women don't either, they just like to make it seem real. If you "creep" her out while being adorable at the same (never breaking rapport) then you'll win.

Author:  Kupid [ Thu Apr 21, 2011 10:07 pm ]
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Hitting on a girl is attractive, it's called being a man and not a pussy. And it's good that it's all weird when there's no escape, that means there's a lot of sexual tension which is perfect for seduction. And girls aren't scared of guys doing this, they just got guys like you scared.

There really isn't such thing as direct and indirect game. There's really one way to game and that's by being sexual, escalating..being direct. Attraction doesn't happen based on some opinion on a wild topic or directions to some bullshit place. It happens when there is sexual tension. If you are not sexual with a girl, then you are not seeing her as a sexual being, that's insulting her. You're basically just looking for good reactions from her if she approves of YOU as a person and not as one who can deliver pleasure. That's being extremely selfish.
Yeah dude that stuff with sexual escelation, that doesn't really work for daygame (I don't say everytime there are exceptions), especialy when there's like 20 people around cause then you make her super uncomfortable by making her look like easy in front of all those people.
Now you might don't care about that, but trust me she will. However your theory is hammered for nightgame, think of it like this. You can come to the club, grab a girl by the ass and make out with her, if you manage to do that during the day in the same time frame, I'll buy you a six pack :D
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I'm terribly sorry. Perhaps I misunderstood when my housemate was telling me how she's changed her routine to get to work to avoid a guy who was creepy as he hit on to her on a bus.

One of the main goals of the PUA is to leave the girl better than you found her. A lot of people forget this.

I'd be interested to hear the thoughts of some of the forum girls if anyone fancies pointing them them this way.
You got that right, for all of those who don't believe, that girls'll do anything to avoid this kind of guys, check out Alex Coulson and his first bus approach (you'll laugh your ass out :D )
But "leave the girl better than you found her" I belive in that up to a certain point, on your PUA journey you can't always do that, sometimes you fuck up really bad especialy at the beginning so, this is something that should be in your "code", but don't sweat it if you break it. ;)

Author:  zebraG [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:22 pm ]
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check out Alex Coulson and his first bus approach (you'll laugh your ass out :D )
Got a link? I couldn't find it.

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