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| Author: | mattdub1 [ Sat Apr 16, 2011 2:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How To Get HER To Approach YOU forreal! |
Haha. This one is sexy. I've been in the field alot lately, which is actually FUN when you're not out SEEKING or trying to get things from the girls. It's not a chore. It's both a performance and a classroom all at once. Being a musician has its advantages. SO yesterday I spent some time in downtown Pittsburgh getting high with my buddies and talking to girls outside of a concert. (Bassnectar murdered it for like 3 hours... INSANE energy.) Anyway I'm finally learning how to make girls approach me consistently. You do it with eye contact and subtle gestures. 1. Lock eyes with her 2. After a moment of locking eyes with her, make a very subtle head nod gesture like you're beckoning her towards you. 3. She'll look away for a second but lock eyes with her again. 4. Make another "beckon" gesture, like saying "come here!" with your eyes and body language. The girl, if she has any self-confidence at all, will then either walk right up to you or walk NEAR you so that you can open her. And of course, step 5 is you open her. Say Hey whatsup and then introduce yourself. Now, it's interesting how this plays out, cuz if you do it right, there is a built-in element of compliance which is THE BEST way to start a fucking pickup: get her investing. This is almost like you're tapping into her auto-pilot mechanism for getting her to do something (more on this in another post).. It's like you control her. This is why Brent is always talking about visualizations feeling like you have mind control. It's actually energetic control of your body, thus energetic control of HER body too. There's a very consistent formula for getting girls to make out with you FAST. But it's hard to explain in words. You'd have to either see me do it, or make it work for yourself. I can kiss girls without ever meeting them. I can just walk up and kiss girls and they'll be cool with it. This is probably because I'm super relaxed in field. Usually, approaching a girl makes me feel good. Like I'm sitting in a hot tub drinking a bottle of Dom. Super comfy, and this makes girls VERY comfortable with me right away. It's like I sneak in there like a comfort snake, and then start to escalate the energy. I have control of the interaction, no matter how many people are their. And I'm totally willing to let OTHER people control the interaction too! You don't have to do it all. You just need to be aware and alert and feel good in field. You'll start to see this stuff like I see it. We just have to get out of our own way and let our minds and bodies work FOR us. Our unconscious minds are more powerful than we even understand. Show it what you want, and then fucking sit back and relax, cuz if you believe, you will achieve. GTG homes. Peace! PS: DO NOT do this with guys! Don't look them in the eye twice or they will think you are gay! I'm not kidding this move is DANGEROUS! PS: Get on my ma-fuckin mailing list if you're not. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sat Apr 16, 2011 4:33 pm ] |
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Lol good pots bro'. Some cute chiccs in your pic' also. I can definitely see the power of your insights. I suck at EC(eye contact)but the rare times I did manage to maintain it,I made it work with the gestures on the head. In fact,I do that playfully that anything else with a slight smile. The target will come most times. But 1 thing I've noticed(you eluded to)i that the girls will seem a bit unsure as to whom you're motioning. At times,I've seen the target point to herself as if to say,"me"? This works perfect in loud venues too. |
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