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| Author: | spandrel [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 12:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Friendzoning the Girl |
Anyone ever experiment with the idea of friend-zoning the woman? Look at the devastating effect it has on many guys. And women have very likely never been exposed to it so they won't know what to think. Ideas? I've had a situation that was deteriorating, so I've done this. The idea is to keep her around for the future but with alpha initiative-- *I* am the one who decides what happens. |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 1:19 pm ] |
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friend zoning the girl is something I do as a disqualifier all the time. "Ooooh, you are fun! We are going to be best friends I can tell" I love that shit. After that you can just bait them to invest with little comments in the next 5-10 min. "Wow, that girl over is just emenating sexy!" "Wow you are too cute, I bet you are like a naughty librarian" "I love nice girs but sometimes sexy is called for" it works very well. |
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| Author: | spandrel [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 4:07 pm ] |
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I am talking longer term than that. I have a situation where I would like to salvage getting AFC on a woman. I gave her a large amount of emotional input, then I friend-zoned her, now I am going to freeze her out for a while. What do you think of that? Then I may or may not come back in a while. This woman is profoundly attracted to me, we just sort of had a bad patch after her husband found out about me and threw her out of the house. Too soon? 
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 2:33 pm ] |
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nah your good. i am jsut not clear about what your objective is. |
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| Author: | spandrel [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 9:27 pm ] |
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Objective: fucking the shit out of her. I have the gut feeling I can nail this woman to the wall. I just kinda lost my footing and clung onto her, and the fact that I busted up her 6 year marriage didn't help any either. Fuck my life. Hopefully space and time will heal it up and after a month or two her huge attraction to me will reassert itself. I also know about her kinky fetishes and I am equipped to satisfy them. BTW do you do jujitsu? |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Thu Apr 14, 2011 6:08 pm ] |
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Yes the freeze out will work. Just say something sexual... Like "I know it's seems bad right now but really sex with me was probably worth it : P" and then dont talk to her for a long time. yes i do BJJ |
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| Author: | spandrel [ Thu Apr 14, 2011 6:49 pm ] |
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I think there is something more to freezeouts than meets the eye. * Negative feelings tend to erode, with normal people * Intense feelings tend to obscure less intense ones (like boredom) * In the rosy light of memory, things often seem nicer than they actually were, especially if she doesn't do as well subsequently * The feeling of a missed opportunity tends to hurt, over time. Point is, it's not JUST an aggressive "look at me" thing. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Thu Apr 14, 2011 11:12 pm ] |
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I think this "friendzoning" the girl thing could potentially be brilliant. However, don't ever expect a female to stand idly by and put up with it, oh no, they don't respond like us. We get all weird and thoughtful and like "wtf is going on?" (in our own heads). A lot of females would be like "are you fucking kidding me?" and come right out and say it and call you right out on it. Be prepared to have an answer or be able to fake total shock, lol, when she does. |
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| Author: | spandrel [ Fri Apr 15, 2011 12:48 am ] |
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Quote: I think this "friendzoning" the girl thing could potentially be brilliant.
Hey, I'm a brilliant guy.Seriously, isn't it just so fucking obvious? |
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