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Author:  Century100 [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 11:52 am ]
Post subject:  How long does it take to fall in the friend zone?

So I just started uni, and my course has some mediocre females but none which are attractive (Im doing electrical engineering lol)

A couple are not bad though..
ANYWAY - point is, ive been kinoing from the start, just started off with handshakes and small stuff like that, and now were like uni friends, but shes physically comfortable with me, like she sits on my lap etc.

I didnt do any real kino past walking with arm around shoulder/waist/hugs/holding waist while talking, mainly because im not THAT into her.
I also remained a challenge, by only really giving her this sort of attention when she deserved it and tease her every now and then and be sure not to agree with everything she says (ie im honest about my opinions)

MY QUESTION:
Assuming everything i have said has been done correctly, is it still very possible that im in the friend zone?
Or have i done everything correctly to be considered dateable still.

Note: Once she said about another guy "Hes really nice..but too nice, like I cant see him in that way"
and i said "Am I tooo nice?" (in a cocky funny way)
And she said "Nah not like that, youre friendly and social, he is just really nice/helpful"

MY CONCERN (OR RATHER, MY OTHER QUESTION):
Im not really trying with her, but im using our relationship as a "test" sort of...have I kinoed correctly? Or am i meant to keep escalating? Have I not escalated enough lately?
Its been like this for a month.


Thanks

Author:  xJokerz [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 12:47 pm ]
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What do you want from her?

Do you want to fuck her or date her? You have to know what you want only than you can start working.

If you would like to start something it willl be tough because you might be already in the LJBF zone. You´r escalating was good but you didn´t kiss her or anything like that

If you want to start something meet her alone and escalate.

Author:  Century100 [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 7:02 am ]
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id like to get physical without any sort of closed relationship ..

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