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Author:  PuAllProdigy [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 2:25 am ]
Post subject:  First time talking to this girl. FB Convo, Feedback?
So i see this girl in the halls but shes always busy talking to people, or i haveto go and i dont have time to talk, so i attempted a Convo wit her on FB. Heres how it went Feedback would be Great! By the way my Grammar isnt bad its how we talk where im from, everyone uses it to. Oh and shes a HB9!

Me-Whats Good!

Her-Nm Hby (Nothing Much How bout you)

Me-Nm Doing Homework for the first time in years Lol. And i Suck at it!

Her-lol i hate history

Me-Im saying, So why you such a stranger hun? I say we get on that!

Her-lol I agree

Me-You Agree but i feel no effort, Your always this Lazy? :P

Her- Lmao no! Its cause i like dont know you.

Me-Ahhah Well Dont be So Shy Hun! The worst i could do is Just turn you down ;P

Her-lmfaoo ! aww you tooo

Me-Haha Alright, I'll See You 2Morrow Then. Dont get all Nervous n Run away on me. !

Her- I wont

Me-Alrightt; So i Barely know you! Besides Beingg Cute What elsee you got Goin for you.?

[No Reply] Anyone see any faults i did?

Thanks again guys!
Author:  echnarcissus [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 2:35 am ]
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I'm new to all this but one thing I can clearly point out is talking to her again after peacing out. That's just indecisiveness.
Author:  FBDragon [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 2:42 am ]
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Hey man,
Personally, I just don't like the flow of the conversation. You're not talking about anything interesting. She barely knows you, and what you've displayed in that convo was that you are not very interesting. You're talking about school, which I'm sure she does not want to talk about, and every other guy trying to hit on her at school probably does the same thing. The use of "hun" when you barely know her seems really awkward. You keep pointing out that she is "shy" to see you which maybe once in a playful tone might work, but when you continuously do it, it points out an insecurity that you have. "Don't get nervous and run away" sounds needy. To be honest, it seems like she was just remaining in the conversation to be nice, so I'm not really surprised she did not respond after you tried qualifying. Throughout the whole convo it seemed like you were trying to get something from her. You should have approached it with an "I'm just being friendly" attitude (which you started to do with the high energy) opposed to an "I want to game this girl" attitude.
Author:  PuAllProdigy [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 2:46 am ]
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Hey man,
Personally, I just don't like the flow of the conversation. You're not talking about anything interesting. She barely knows you, and what you've displayed in that convo was that you are not very interesting. You're talking about school, which I'm sure she does not want to talk about, and every other guy trying to hit on her at school probably does the same thing. The use of "hun" when you barely know her seems really awkward. You keep pointing out that she is "shy" to see you which maybe once in a playful tone might work, but when you continuously do it, it points out an insecurity that you have. "Don't get nervous and run away" sounds needy. To be honest, it seems like she was just remaining in the conversation to be nice, so I'm not really surprised she did not respond after you tried qualifying. Throughout the whole convo it seemed like you were trying to get something from her. You should have approached it with an "I'm just being friendly" attitude (which you started to do with the high energy) opposed to an "I want to game this girl" attitude.
So what could i have said? Maybe Re-Phrase my Convo to the right way? And i thouht saying "Dont get Nervous and run" would be a Small Neg, and also she isnt SHy, shes Populr but is open with everyone and shes very social and outgoing. So where could i gone wrong? Thanks
Author:  beniboyer2 [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 4:59 pm ]
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So what could i have said? Maybe Re-Phrase my Convo to the right way? And i thouht saying "Dont get Nervous and run" would be a Small Neg, and also she isnt SHy, shes Populr but is open with everyone and shes very social and outgoing. So where could i gone wrong? Thanks
You have to be careful negging online. When you neg make sure to add a smiley ;)
I think you were a little too tryhard, and I think you should have left after you mentioned tomorrow!

I'm not a PUA, but this is just my point of view!

I hope this helped you out!
Author:  PuAllProdigy [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 5:04 pm ]
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So what could i have said? Maybe Re-Phrase my Convo to the right way? And i thouht saying "Dont get Nervous and run" would be a Small Neg, and also she isnt SHy, shes Populr but is open with everyone and shes very social and outgoing. So where could i gone wrong? Thanks
You have to be careful negging online. When you neg make sure to add a smiley ;)
I think you were a little too tryhard, and I think you should have left after you mentioned tomorrow!

I'm not a PUA, but this is just my point of view!

I hope this helped you out!
Very Truee i Messed up, but i can always recover, thanks for the feedback! Explain how i was a Little Tryhard so i can not make the same mistake or watch out for it!
Author:  Captain Morgan [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 5:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First time talking to this girl. FB Convo, Feedback?
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So i see this girl in the halls but shes always busy talking to people, or i haveto go and i dont have time to talk, so i attempted a Convo wit her on FB. Heres how it went Feedback would be Great! By the way my Grammar isnt bad its how we talk where im from, everyone uses it to. Oh and shes a HB9!

Me-Whats Good!

Her-Nm Hby (Nothing Much How bout you)

Me-Nm Doing Homework for the first time in years Lol. And i Suck at it!

Her-lol i hate history

Me-Im saying, So why you such a stranger hun? I say we get on that!

Her-lol I agree

Me-You Agree but i feel no effort, Your always this Lazy? :P

Her- Lmao no! Its cause i like dont know you.

Me-Ahhah Well Dont be So Shy Hun! The worst i could do is Just turn you down ;P

Her-lmfaoo ! aww you tooo

Me-Haha Alright, I'll See You 2Morrow Then. Dont get all Nervous n Run away on me. !

Her- I wont

Me-Alrightt; So i Barely know you! Besides Beingg Cute What elsee you got Goin for you.?

[No Reply] Anyone see any faults i did?

Thanks again guys!
I would say what you said that I bolded is great...that was a good way to catch her off guard, but otherwise I agree with what was said above...acting closer than warranted...I would approach her in school, no more FB...
Author:  PuAllProdigy [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 5:31 pm ]
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Thank you! But what do you mean acting closer than warranted? And Yea i try, i seen her today but shes always with a group of people. And im not really cool with her clik. :/
Author:  Captain Morgan [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 6:41 pm ]
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Well, that right there shows that you need to suck it up and regardless of whether they like you or not enter the group, ESPECIALLY if it is holding you back from getting a chance to talk with her.....you show you can walk in and handle the group, then it is on...I know this is a tough risk, but that is what Mystery does...he MOSTLY does group game and THAT is why he gets the girls he does because he knows group dynamic theory.

I was referring "hun" comments with the "too close.." thing...it's like you giving a hug to someone you just met...in our culture, just weird.


Keep us informed...
Author:  PuAllProdigy [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 1:11 am ]
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Well, that right there shows that you need to suck it up and regardless of whether they like you or not enter the group, ESPECIALLY if it is holding you back from getting a chance to talk with her.....you show you can walk in and handle the group, then it is on...I know this is a tough risk, but that is what Mystery does...he MOSTLY does group game and THAT is why he gets the girls he does because he knows group dynamic theory.

I was referring "hun" comments with the "too close.." thing...it's like you giving a hug to someone you just met...in our culture, just weird.


Keep us informed...
I see, i will tomorrow if i see her. Any tips you can possibly give me? I know Things, but mainly as Motivation and to get my PUA mind flow going haha.

But yea where im from its commonly used to say things like that, we also give hugs to someone we just meet (Only if its Cold approaching, and they have no known existence of you it is considered wierd) so even if you just talked to them finally they already know of you and its fine.

But i will keep you guys informed! Time to study more. =]
Author:  FBDragon [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 2:44 am ]
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You seem like you don't really know what to say to her, so you should look up some routines, but by no means should you rely on them. Just use them to get you started. And have fun! Just because you're not cool with her friends doesn't mean you still can't talk to her. You'll probably have to win over the friends anyway.
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