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i know this sounds weird but.are asian girls harder to game?
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Author:  Century100 [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 7:17 am ]
Post subject:  i know this sounds weird but.are asian girls harder to game?
For whatever reason, ive found myself into asian girls...but they always seem to stick to their asian groups!

a) From experience, are they just like any other girl? Or are they harder/easier to game?
b) What strategies can you use to talk to them if they are speaking another language in a group of other asians?

I know this question sounds ridiculous haha, but its exactly how the situation seems to be
Author:  MechanisM [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 8:09 am ]
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a) Not neccessarily harder .... but a bit different. Especially asian chicks that haven't been exposed to western culture for long, but gaming is still universal. Turn up your humor + charm, tone down your sexuality and deploy it slowly as you work towards your goal.

b) As for chicks that speak different language, just gotta project actions and amplify gestures and movements when you're trying to explain what you mean (if you're good at explaining through motions it's a DHV)
Author:  muzztecAFC [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 11:34 am ]
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What I heave learnt is that they are extremely loyal to boyfriends (even if they have a boy friend in china and he will never know about you)
They like to hang out in their groups, so you need to become friends with someone and find away to hang with their groups, just means takes lots more comfort.
Their sense of humor can be different, sometimes they just laugh because they don't understand you, not because your funny, i miss read this once and got shot down, she was laughing because her English was crap and she had no clue what I was saying.
Author:  Century100 [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 11:40 am ]
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LOL Lawrence, thats something which I can imagine happening to me. Experienced that sort of situation before, of laughing when I didn tdo anything. It all makes sense now!

Thanks for the advice guys :) If anyone has anything else, dont hesitate to post here (y)
Author:  Tiger6Niner [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 1:32 pm ]
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Some asian girls go for asian guys only. You'll have little chance with those. They generally arent that exciting anyway. On the other hand some asian girls hate asian guys, so you've already got a step up there. My ex only dated asian guys but im a half cast so i guess that was enough slant for her. She turned out to be a bitch, always complaining about white people being rude and having no manners. My current gf vowed never to date asian guys until she met me which i still tease her about.

What kind of asian girls are you into? The complete fobs or the westernized ones? For fobs, you'll want to know about their culture and asiany things like anime. Being able to say a few words, no matter how poorly your pronounce them will get a laugh out of them and you in their good books. Knowing what you like on the menu helps if you go out to an asian restaurant with them. Try some of the food before hand and gain a taste for a few dishes.
Author:  Suffa [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 1:44 pm ]
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Ive had 4 asian gfs now, im a white guy. I find theres 2 types, the fresh off the boat type that dont speak much english and the ones that have their residency and speak fluent english.

Fresh off the boat is easier, but they need to be comfortable with you to sleep with you. They are very loyal, at least those with strong cultural background like japanese. They will cook, clean, service you like no white girl ever will. They are great in bed and love to please their man. I find they dont have that bitch shield white girls do, they just need to get to know you and not see you as a threat.
Author:  Keksman [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 5:00 pm ]
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As always, things differ substantially. I only have experience with Koreans, Japaneses, and Thais. In that order, their cultures are decreasingly insular, making it easier for any "outsider" to penetrate (no pun intended). :wink: Also, the "fresher off the boat" they are, the less likely you are to have success. There are language barriers, a stronger identification with their home culture, etc.

That said, some of the easiest fare is Asian girls who hang in groups with only AFC guys. These blokes hope that heritage will do it for them, until you come and prove them wrong.
Author:  Physicist [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 7:22 pm ]
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What type of asian girls though? The indians and the pakis or those from the far east?

In general, its all about the personality of the girl. Its how open or close she is and how you need to calibrate it to that. Haven't had much experience with these girls so can't really go into specifics.
Author:  Century100 [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 6:44 am ]
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appreciating these responses guys, cheers

I dont know what nationality, i guess i mean halfway between fob and westernised?
Not totally westernised, but not totally fob if that makes sense, ie can speak some english and you know, have some western culture to the point where i wont feel weird when they hang out with my friends (y)

Also, The ones i seem to be interested in are usually darkish skinned, (so maybe phillipino or like thai), but some of the fair ones look absolutely stunning also, maybe japanese?

I mean that sort of Asia, not so much paki/india :) Anything is good though

Another thing - someone mentioned to tone down sexuality and up charm/humor. Is that because they are less into sex?
Why would you need more sexuality with white girls?
Author:  muzztecAFC [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 10:04 am ]
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Well I have a complete FOB in one of my uni classes, and I spent 7 weeks (only see her once a week) to build comfort but still be playful, even though her English is screwed, I got her number and used google translate to txt her in Chinese. Today in class she started kino before me which is good, and she asked if I had a girlfriend, then her friend came so I just made fun of them (gotta win the friend over a little more I think) but I think she's still going to be loyal to her boyfriend, unless he reads some of my txts I send her and breaks up with her.
Author:  spiky_boy [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 12:08 pm ]
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No. I've spoken about it extensively before but people exergerrate the effects of ethnicity waaay too much. I've gamed muslim girls fer cryin out loud so have all my friends.

Seduction & PUA techniques are losely based on behavioural psychology. The formalised techniques we have from Ross Jefferies to David D to everyone who came after Mystery have this at their core pretty much.

David D spends a lot of time talking about how he does thought experiments of us as monkey troops on the plains of Africa before we evolved into humans. This shit cuts accross social, cultural, and ethnic boundaries.
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