Has it ever happened to you that you meet a girl who doesn't seem to have much sexual experience, and she treats you like you are the greatest thing since sliced bread?
I have come across this quite often recently, I meet really nice girls. And it makes me feel super guilty. Because you can tell she hasn't dated too much ya know... She doesn't shit test you, doesn't linger on sex talk, tries really hard to get your attention, perhaps even has low self esteem, or is a bit shy/reserved. Usually the kind of girls that go to college to ACTUALLY pursue a career. And the thing is, I always pick up on this very early on, WAYYYY before the lay... So I know, that by the time it does come... She gonna expect me to commit to just her, and I don't really want that. I mean, they are attractive, physically an all, but I don't wanna break hearts and stuff. So I can't let myself go through with it...
This is why I prefer the more confident and experienced, non-slutty, nice girls. Where they are cool and all, but have been around the block enough times to be a challenge... Not only is the lack of a challenge a bit of a turn-off, but like I said, I feel guilty before even making a serious move, because I feel like they are gonna instantly want me to commit to just them. And I hate to keep letting some of these opportunities slip by, these are really nice and attractive girls, but they are just TOO damn nice... right now, I wanna work on my game, my experience, I want girls who I can fuck a few times without having to necessarily commit.
What do you guys do? Has this ever happened? How do you break this frame. I know all girls LOVE sex, but like I said, right now... I have commitment issues... I don't wanna settle for any girl unless I have strong feelings for her, and that takes time... Which brings up another point? How do you manage MLTRs? Thats something I'm gonna have to work on soon...
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