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Author:  MechanisM [ Wed Apr 06, 2011 4:21 pm ]
Post subject:  I want No Strings Attached
Ok... guys need tips/advice. I'm currently overseas in my birthplace China, but i'm Aussie.... this girl and I hit it off well and we are flirty and touchy. I want to hit that asap.

The only problem is she was intro'd to me by a relative! How do I telepath to her that I'm just want some action without commitment or taking her back to my homeland. I'm not sure about the culture here so I don't know easy or down the girls are for NSA.

I don't want to trick her into it by promising that she's the one or telling her i'll take her back to my homeland (Australia), because it'll make my relative lose face and potentially spoil future intro's.
What can I say/ do for the next outing to test these waters without consequences later on to me or my relative??? All opinions appreciated!

tl;dr - How can I ask/hint to her for a hit and run (no strings attached) without her regretting or me and relative getting into trouble?
Author:  Txacoli [ Wed Apr 06, 2011 5:07 pm ]
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Maybe you can ask somebody how things work there. Talk to your relative and explain the situation. But in my opinion it would be best just to let this one go. It's not worth the embarrassement to your family. On the other hand, you can talk to the girl directly and talk about how things work in Australia, about dating and sex and then ask her how does it work in China. It's the best to hear it from her directly. If you find out it's no big deal, go ahead. Otherwise, back off.
Author:  MechanisM [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 4:02 am ]
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Good advice... I think i do need to tell something to her, just don't know how to approach it in that light.
Author:  Beyond Pick Up [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 7:41 am ]
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2 options.

1. Is by being honest

2. Is by reducing the hours of gaming. Or seduce her immediately in 2-3 hours (including travel time). Communicate with her honestly after sex (like in cuddling and pillow talk).

The more time you give, the more time you may be considered a bf potential.
Author:  $uave [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 12:53 pm ]
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1) always manage expectations(credits to Chief)

Basically tell her that you aren't looking for anything serious. Do that with every girl you game.
Author:  MechanisM [ Sun Apr 10, 2011 12:18 pm ]
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Cheers for the tips guys, helped quite a bit. Basically I gave off the impression that I'm here for fun and trying new things etc, also made it obvious that I didn't want to settle till i have found the right one... and SPAM still haven't found that yet :D

Much to my surprise she was still there at the end of the night... so it was on her then.
took the same cab with me and offered to send me back to my place, so obviously i knew it was on!

Took a few extra hours to crack on top of that in my room. She threw crazy shit tests left right and centre, but basically I stressed that it was absolutely normal in my country and that I like empowered girls.... etcetc. Her main concern was the short time and not letting anyone know about it, so i gave her things she needed to hear. Gave me the 'I have my periods' excuse.... so covered all bases except that.

Was fun, and now I think I have a holiday booty call.
Thx forum :)
Author:  andd95 [ Sun Apr 10, 2011 5:08 pm ]
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i agree honesty is the best policy especially if you fear repercussions socially or otherwise to your family. When I meet a girl after gaming and knowing where it's heading I tell her flat out that i'm not looking for anything serious right now if they think they may catch feelings to let me know and its better not to do anything. Even if they end up liking you at least you told them flat out and you can refer to it that they knew what they were getting into.
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