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| Author: | righttrack [ Tue Apr 05, 2011 5:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | I need help!!!!! |
I really need this community's help. I'll start off by saying that I'm a sophomore in college 20 years old. I'm a tall guy about 6'3" slender but athletic looking with wide shoulders. I've never been that sucessful with girls. Actually none at all. I've never kissed one. I can't seem to get the confidence to just go up to a girl or girls and approach them. I know I'm a good looking guy. I make eye contact and smiles with girls all day long. I get alot of IOI's all the time every where I go but I can't seem to get over the inner confidence thing. My confidence in my looks are there. I'm honestly willing most of the time to go up to the girl but I always feel like I dont know what to say besides "Hey my name is -----, I thought you were cute." Here lately I've thought about just trying that. When I get introduced and comfortable around people I have a great sense of humor and always can keep good conversation with anyone. I said all that to say this......I read the game a few years ago and thought i might have hope afterall. So I've ordered the rules to the game and its on the way in the mail now. But besides that I feel so confused. There are so many methods and books. Can ya kind of lay out a blueprint or a education series on what books I should read or what video's to watch in order to get over my problems and learn material to open. Also what PUA's should I pay the most attention too? |
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| Author: | Maikuljay [ Tue Apr 05, 2011 6:15 am ] |
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There's a learning curve of rejection you need to get over. Practical experience is no comparison to theory. You can learn all you like but you need to get into the field to really learn. Theory is great for "planting seeds" eventually you will refer back in your mind and recognise the things your doing wrong. There is no simple way to do it other than getting the balls to go in and get blown out a few times to build some reference points. Be prepared to fail.. time and time again.. that's ok. Ideally after getting rejected you begin to learn what not to do. Furthermore once you suffer a few brutal rejections you will begin to realise that there's not much that will/can happen to you for "having a crack" so just get in there son.. times a wastin! |
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