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| Author: | rmzvegas [ Mon Apr 04, 2011 2:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Shit test? Need to figure this one out! |
So this girl I've been seeing a few times lately pulled what I think may be a test on me last night.. I've been trying to figure it out. Here's the rundown, I went to this girl after I broke up with my girlfriend a few months back, had a little fling nothing crazy. Went back to my girlfriend, dumped her again. Now this girl and I have a thing going again.. Kinda. We've been hanging out and all seems good, including after-date kisses and such. She explains how into me she is and she tells me how amazing I am.. Then, she says this last night and kinda confuses me: Her: "Can I ask you something?" Me: "Yeah whats up?" Her: I know we're doing whatever right now and just being chill. But do you think even if we.. I don't really know how to say this.. Um even if we stop being "intimate" with each other we can still hang out and be friends? Because you've been such a good friend to me and I don't want you to think we have to be anything more to hang out. So at this point I feel like I fucked up because I'm now in the just friends zone possibly? But I don't think that she's too serious as she's just NOT that type of girl. I wanna go further in with this girl and get going a little more into it.. this is what I said back: Me: Well, no matter what.. I'm still always gonna be a good friend to you even if you don't want anything more from me. I just really like spending time with you because you are a sweet girl and you put me in a happy mood all the time. So what is it that you want from me I guess? Her: I don't want anything! Just want to make sure we'll be friends no matter what goes down. Not saying anything will I just wanna make sure we'll be chill no matter what kind of friendship we have. You get what I'm saying or no? and blah blah blah.. This basically turned out to her saying how she lets herself get close to me before she can trust me and how she doesn't know if we will turn out to be more than we are. I think what she's trying to say.. Is that she is letting me know that she ain't gonna be faithful to me and she doesn't want a relationship, she can see other dudes and I can see other chicks no big deal. Either that, or she just wants to quit going out and having fun with me and just be straight friends. I think this is a shit test because she has gotten into testy waters with me, bringing up topics like this before. And stuff never really changed at all. So idk what to think.. Someone help me out? |
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| Author: | BGroove [ Mon Apr 04, 2011 5:52 pm ] |
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I dont really see the problem. Just dont let her play games with you. If you ask me she wants to make sure you guys can still be cool with eachother if the situation changes into a sexual relationship or the other way around. Its up to you to make sure the first option happens. B |
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