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Author:  Skilldisciple [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 12:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Funny vs. Serious?
Hello MPUA community! :D

I know you are all busy, so ill keep it short and simple.

Ive been reading a lot of ebooks on the seduction community. Their is always though the question that has been bothering me. See some of the books emphasize on DHV and being funny or interesting. Others just say, dont do that just be stay quite and serious. Others just plain say to go out animal on them. Then we go back to the beginning where one says that all that sounds creepy and that girls dont like creepy.

I read a lot of posts before, and it says "You may read all the books and post but, if you dont use it infield their worthless".

Basically am saying in psychologically Myer-Briggs personality type.

Lets say your an I_ _ _. Introverted person , should you focus on getting on sexual tension?

Lets say your an E_ _ _. Extroverted person, should you focus on making an good conversation and being funny?

Lets say you got an _ _ T_. Thinking personality, should you focus on canned material?

Lets say you got an _ _ F_. Feeling personality , should you focus on Natural game and emotional connection?

So is it being funny better than being serious?
Or is it better to be serious than funny?

"Humor is the best seduction"
"Not using humor to get sexual tension"

I'm an AFC, so I would like people opinions?
Tips or hints anything welcome :D

P.S. I am not from USA, am in college here so sorry in advance if you have a hard time understanding.
Author:  AdamThomas [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 12:18 pm ]
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Hey mate :) I'd say there's a time for each one. It's all about balance.

Being funny and entertaining is good, that will get you some initial interest. Nobody will want to hang around with somebody who takes himself too seriously. The problem with being funny and entertaining is that you can do it too much, and the girl will start to see you as just a funny guy. Remember in school when there was the class clown? Always cracking jokes and making everybody laugh. Everybody loves him. But what happens if that guy trys to have a serious chat with somebody? They don't take him seriously. They can't tell if he's joking. It's weird. This means he'll struggle to build any real connections with girls. As you probably already know humour relieves tension. Ever had somebody tell you something that isn't even funny, but you do a little laugh afterwards anyway? It's just to relieve tension and stop things getting awkward. You need sexual tension in any interaction with a girl you hope to have sex with.

As for being serious, it's much better for building sexual tension and emotional connections. Also much better for screening/qualifying a girl. If you're serious all of the time you're gonna be a bit boring.

There's a lot of conflicting advice in the community, mainly because 75% of the guys talk bollocks. I'd say it's better to use a little humour, but be more serious and seductive.
Author:  Joris [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 2:52 pm ]
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I think, if you're for example a thinker, you can learn canned material pretty quick, but that doesn't mean your limited to just that. you can learn anything you want but if it's not up your alley it wil just take some more time for you to learn
Author:  Skilldisciple [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 11:38 pm ]
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I get your points. So basically its all about balancing one with each other.
If your too serious no one will take you as fun. If your too fun you wont be taking serious.

Also, ill stick to the canned material for the start then probably go natural.
Thanks for the advice guys :D
Appreciated.
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