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| Author: | adams87 [ Wed Mar 30, 2011 8:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | I'm trapped. I feel like I have no hope. |
I was with my girlfriend for 8 months (I know it’s short but we developed a strong bond) We didn’t spend hardly any time apart and grew attached with each other. We built a life together by moving in with each other and got a pet dog, started talking about babies. I had never had this before because I was a player and felt like I didn’t trust women, at the time she put that trust back. We lived at her place and granted we didn’t really go out much because we had a puppy, but we both were satisfied with being together. Then her family became extremely pressuring with me, I could tell that they hated me and her sister openly admitted it, she stood by me but would take their side sometimes. Anyways, this died down and we decided that we were going to move out and get our own place. She tried to break up with me before but couldn’t do it, she said that it was because she thought I would be happier without her and I begged her not to and she didn’t. Then she called me to say she was stopping over at her sisters with her mum, I felt sick to my stomach incase they say something to make her break up with me. Well she came home that next morning and was loving with me, I asked her if they said anything and she told me that they didn’t. Then we got up and she seemed like a different person, extremely cold and distant. This guy she hadn’t spoken to in a really long time called her on the phone. (She hasn’t cheated on me, I know she was at her sisters and we haven’t been apart for 8 months ever since that.) I got pissed off with the phone call because she sounded a bit flirty, I didn’t like that. Well with that she went all cold and told me that she is breaking up with me. She went upstairs packed all of my clothes, all of my stuff, the dogs stuff and said call your dad to pick you up. I asked her why she was doing this and she said to me that she needs to sort her head out and that she can’t do that with me. She kept saying love isn’t enough. She needs to take the risk of not being with me to find out how she is going to be. She was extremely cold and distant. Not only that we both had a dog we loved dearly and she doted on it, it was our dog and she has chucked the puppy out with me. I won’t leave it like she did, It has to come with me because I love it. I’m just hurt because, I put a lot of effort into this relationship to make it work. I stood by her when things got tough for her. She just chucked me out like I was nothing. How could she do that to me? We had good sex, I made her cum everytime. I just don’t know what to do. I’m back in my old environment which I hate. I feel alone and broken. I don’t understand how she could do this from being really loving with me and genuinely loved me to this. I feel like I’m never going to get a girl like that again, I liked what we had. The home and the life. I loved it because my family aren’t really close with me. I really don’t know what to do. I’m alone. I’m fat. My teeth are messed up. I feel like I’m never going to get a girl ever again. The thought of her fucking another guy really scares me. I don’t know how to get over this. I know I sound like a pussy but I don’t know what else to do because I don’t have any friends back here. I ‘m alone right now. I have no direction and I feel hopeless. I feel like I have nothing to look forward to in life. I keep crying. I miss her. But she’s really screwed with my head and my trust. |
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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:43 am ] |
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Well man I know what you are feeling believe me I also lost probably the love of my life TILL THIS POINT THERE will be others , I will only say you are fucked if you have 70 years old which is not the case. You need to quit. You are in depressed mode. Staying home and wanting for her to comeback wont do anything. Having thoughts that you wont find anyone better thats a lie she is the one who missing a wonderfull person, you will find someone better but what you are experienced is completly normal me and the guys who suffer from breakup felt the same she was the ONE but every single one found happiness in another places, Lets see she jumps the train the first time she has oportunity who cares. Loving is two way not one way. I would say you had invested too much time on this girl and probably that why things fucked. I did the same mistake m8 its normal you are crying and feeling awfull but things will get better. First of all you she loved you, but probably not anymore move on, why hang on a girl after one phone call of a random guy she leaves the house wtf?. Now you just need to do PRODUCTIVE THINGS PUT YOUR HEAD IN PLACE. -Go out meet new ppl. -if you can go out with your friends the better. - GO TO GYM YOU SAID YOU ARE FAT you know you can lost weight?while you are doing this you are keeping your head clear of this girl and also boosting your confidence. - Even when you were fat and you teeths were messy you found a girl that you spent 8 months others wont see that imperfections also will see has disnctive traits, your girl wasnt all that special. - After every breakup you will know much more about you , you will become more mature and see things more cleary.Believe me its a plus. Good Luck. JUST MOVE ON AND CUT CONTACT WITH THAT GIRL AND TAKE THAT LAZY ASS FROM THE COUCH AND DONT STAY AT HOME. |
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| Author: | _maestro [ Thu Mar 31, 2011 1:06 am ] |
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Whatever you do, DO NOT GIVE UP. There's thousands of women out there who could be sleeping with you right now. There are thousands of women who would love to have a guy like you. Just start to progressively develop your lifestyle, set lifestyle goals and take steps to make lifestyle changes. Start reading books on PUA, and start doing exercises and become an artist. Allow your confidence to develop and you'll start redeeming your old swagger. You'll forget about the chick soon enough. |
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